ok... i have a serious problem.... i felt in love for a girl.... thtsa the most stupid thing you can do... specially in my situation.
be aware is a quite long post that i'll try to make shorter as possible.
last year i've been outta country for an exchange program, im from brasil and went to the u.s, after a couple months i arrived i started missing julia really bad, and that got me thinking for a week... i ralized that i liked her... k after i got that idea in my mind still on the us i sent x-mas flowers to her, we were all like in love thru icq, emails and ****.
near end of march-april she started ignoring me, of course i felt bad but i consulted this same forum and forgot her, not completely of course cause we stil talked a lot on icq, she only connected to see and talk to me.
when i came back she had a b/f, a guy that she was dating little before i left the country, but by time i left she had broken up with him, it was a shock for me but i got trhu it... the msot impressive part that after 3 weeks i got back she broke up with the guy with no apparent reason. i though well thats my chance, but since we all go to the same school and my school ahs only 400 ppl and everyone knows everyone, i preffered to "save up" her image as slut on the school and started kino on her only.
everything appeared to be just fine, until a jacka$$ friend of mine got into the story, he loves to do this, he starts kino with everyone, he get dumped and then become their best friend and dont leave them alone.... thats the problem, the onyl time alone i had with her i didnt made the move cause i though it was too soon, but today i realize it wasnt(mistake #1).
nowdays im like hitting her hard and ****, i missed my turns a couple more times and ahd other ppl interrupting, specially this friend of mine, this friday we went for a trip cause i got her a modeling job (temporary) we sepnt the whole night toghether, with my lil bro whos trying to help me out, but she never gave me any signs... i though well **** it i'll do like my old man said, i'll take her out for dinner and ask her to be my g/f, the probability of her accepting is 20% cause we never really dated because of my sticky friend.
today i lended my guitar (NEVER DO THIS) to this friend of mine that sticks to girls, and went to a concert his music school has put on, he was going to play, i knew julia would go so i skipped class (mistake #2) and once again he never left us alone...
i jsut got back home this friend of mine has some deal with a cab company and left me home leaving with julia in the car.. but there's one lilttle comment that made me come back for help... she said: "that some **** arrived and would be ready by friday" he was like "wtf it is you can tell me" she was denying until she said "ïts secret" dude taht pissed me off badly...
i know that this guy isnt a treat to me cause hes on the friend zone with her and im goin to there too
1 how to get out of this riscky never come back zone
2 how the hell im going to make my move
3 i know she wants to have some time me and her only but everything i ask her to go with me she denies being a complete *****or when she goes she calls this ****ing friend
i know most of you guys are goin to say NEXT her but.. i really wanna try at least gettin dumped by her.. i have emotional blackmail (its worng the term but wtf) cause i really want to go back to the us for college and everyone knows that i wil never come back, and shes like no you cant go and ****.. im sayin to her of course ill go its my life i have to take care of and here i have to many concerns that will make me take some wrong decisions.
and i have until december to ask her to date me and **** im going to college and stuff, shes a sophmore and doesnt look like one and dont act like, the main reason that i have to at least start dating her until december is that my dad is buying a cabin in a cruise and the cabin is fo four ppl and i would like to ask her to go with me and there for sure ask her to be my g/f...
i know this sound a lot afc but help me out...
i really need help
be aware is a quite long post that i'll try to make shorter as possible.
last year i've been outta country for an exchange program, im from brasil and went to the u.s, after a couple months i arrived i started missing julia really bad, and that got me thinking for a week... i ralized that i liked her... k after i got that idea in my mind still on the us i sent x-mas flowers to her, we were all like in love thru icq, emails and ****.
near end of march-april she started ignoring me, of course i felt bad but i consulted this same forum and forgot her, not completely of course cause we stil talked a lot on icq, she only connected to see and talk to me.
when i came back she had a b/f, a guy that she was dating little before i left the country, but by time i left she had broken up with him, it was a shock for me but i got trhu it... the msot impressive part that after 3 weeks i got back she broke up with the guy with no apparent reason. i though well thats my chance, but since we all go to the same school and my school ahs only 400 ppl and everyone knows everyone, i preffered to "save up" her image as slut on the school and started kino on her only.
everything appeared to be just fine, until a jacka$$ friend of mine got into the story, he loves to do this, he starts kino with everyone, he get dumped and then become their best friend and dont leave them alone.... thats the problem, the onyl time alone i had with her i didnt made the move cause i though it was too soon, but today i realize it wasnt(mistake #1).
nowdays im like hitting her hard and ****, i missed my turns a couple more times and ahd other ppl interrupting, specially this friend of mine, this friday we went for a trip cause i got her a modeling job (temporary) we sepnt the whole night toghether, with my lil bro whos trying to help me out, but she never gave me any signs... i though well **** it i'll do like my old man said, i'll take her out for dinner and ask her to be my g/f, the probability of her accepting is 20% cause we never really dated because of my sticky friend.
today i lended my guitar (NEVER DO THIS) to this friend of mine that sticks to girls, and went to a concert his music school has put on, he was going to play, i knew julia would go so i skipped class (mistake #2) and once again he never left us alone...
i jsut got back home this friend of mine has some deal with a cab company and left me home leaving with julia in the car.. but there's one lilttle comment that made me come back for help... she said: "that some **** arrived and would be ready by friday" he was like "wtf it is you can tell me" she was denying until she said "ïts secret" dude taht pissed me off badly...
i know that this guy isnt a treat to me cause hes on the friend zone with her and im goin to there too
1 how to get out of this riscky never come back zone
2 how the hell im going to make my move
3 i know she wants to have some time me and her only but everything i ask her to go with me she denies being a complete *****or when she goes she calls this ****ing friend
i know most of you guys are goin to say NEXT her but.. i really wanna try at least gettin dumped by her.. i have emotional blackmail (its worng the term but wtf) cause i really want to go back to the us for college and everyone knows that i wil never come back, and shes like no you cant go and ****.. im sayin to her of course ill go its my life i have to take care of and here i have to many concerns that will make me take some wrong decisions.
and i have until december to ask her to date me and **** im going to college and stuff, shes a sophmore and doesnt look like one and dont act like, the main reason that i have to at least start dating her until december is that my dad is buying a cabin in a cruise and the cabin is fo four ppl and i would like to ask her to go with me and there for sure ask her to be my g/f...
i know this sound a lot afc but help me out...
i really need help