"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dmich03

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I met a girl at the club, it was very hard for me to get her attention, but before I leave her that night, she gave me her FB to add her. I added her, we've been talking for like a month and a half, meet up one time for coffee, then I missed her one time I was supposed to meet up ( long story ). Now ever since, she changed on me, don't want to meet up, so I kinda got nervous, and let everything out...after writing her several times, she delete me and blocked me...Last thing I told her was that I wouldn't talk to her for the month of April, because I knew she was in her finals, amongst other things, wrote her to her email...The next day, she unblocked me, but to write me the nastiest message. So I reply saying that she was mean she reply saying that she is like that, told her that she wasnt the day I met her..then told her I would stick to what I said before and talk to her next month, she reply to stop talking to her altogether..then told her that I was stopping as we speak, and that closed the conversation....So am I still in the game, or did I lose? I gotta say that at first I really like this girl, shes perfect to me, and I still like her, she pretty, she smart, and Im sure there is more to this girl, we had coffee together, and she wasnt behaving at all like a mean girl. if I am guilty of anything, is that I've been writing her a lot, but after that incident she made me understand how she may be a drama girl just like my ex, and that s exactly what made her my ex. She make me feel like I'm dealing with a little baby who just wants everything pronto. If thats the case, then I know what I'm up against, and thats what makes me more eager to make things work. I know that if she throws little fit, it wont piss me off like it used to with my ex, I would just take it cool, and hear what she has on her mind. What should I do May 1?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Doctrine Dark

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I think it'd be best if you placed focus on another woman at this point. She sounds like a waste of time.
 

SandHawk

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You sound like a drama queen seeking actively for problems like this. This is what you're going to do:

1) You're going to delete this girl off your Facebook and delete her other contact details
2) You're going to read The Book of Pook
3) You're going to read The DJ Bible
4) You're going to start approaching tons of chicks and forget about this one
5) ???
6) Profit!
 

Diaforetikos

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SandHawk said:
You sound like a drama queen seeking actively for problems like this. This is what you're going to do:

1) You're going to delete this girl off your Facebook and delete her other contact details
2) You're going to read The Book of Pook
3) You're going to read The DJ Bible
4) You're going to start approaching tons of chicks and forget about this one
5) ???
6) Profit!
Hahahahahaaaa... oooooh man... profit. That certainly was a knee slapper.
 
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