"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Help me on this one fellas!

Captin Krunch

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SO....the other day i was jus walkin down the side walk, and my homeboy was like, "dude wats wrong wit u"....by my facial expression i guess he thought i was mad, but i was in a pretty good mood....and that got me wondering, so i asked my other friend do i look mean/mad when walking down the hallway and he was like "yea you have the 'dont phuck wit me' look on your face"....im so lost, because i never recall being mad, but my facial expression comes off that way i guess lmfao.....any suggestions? i need help :(
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TheEnergizer

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lol i'm kinda the same way. ive had people ask the same thing to me before even when my expression is completely normal. you should take a look at your normal facial expression in the mirror to see. for me its kinda of a stern, sophisticated, deep in thought, sharp kinda look that might seem angry to some people. i think its mostly cause my eyebrows curve upwards and back down a little from the middle out and my sharp facial features. most of the time though i turn it into an even sterner look when i'm thinking about something anyway.

a lot of people make assumptions about it though and for some reason people immediately think i'm smart (which is true, i am in AP classes) because i have that intelligent look and they have a lot of respect for me right away. i guess looks matter whether you want them to or not.
 

Amberjhons

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I had the similar experience.
The best way to it is just "let it alone" i think.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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