"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Help me on this one fellas!

Captin Krunch

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SO....the other day i was jus walkin down the side walk, and my homeboy was like, "dude wats wrong wit u"....by my facial expression i guess he thought i was mad, but i was in a pretty good mood....and that got me wondering, so i asked my other friend do i look mean/mad when walking down the hallway and he was like "yea you have the 'dont phuck wit me' look on your face"....im so lost, because i never recall being mad, but my facial expression comes off that way i guess lmfao.....any suggestions? i need help :(
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TheEnergizer

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lol i'm kinda the same way. ive had people ask the same thing to me before even when my expression is completely normal. you should take a look at your normal facial expression in the mirror to see. for me its kinda of a stern, sophisticated, deep in thought, sharp kinda look that might seem angry to some people. i think its mostly cause my eyebrows curve upwards and back down a little from the middle out and my sharp facial features. most of the time though i turn it into an even sterner look when i'm thinking about something anyway.

a lot of people make assumptions about it though and for some reason people immediately think i'm smart (which is true, i am in AP classes) because i have that intelligent look and they have a lot of respect for me right away. i guess looks matter whether you want them to or not.
 

Amberjhons

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I had the similar experience.
The best way to it is just "let it alone" i think.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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