"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Help me make a structure. Won't take long.

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Hey yo' fit guys out there!

Need e program that:
-includes: squats, bench press, chin ups, dips, deadlifts, bicep curls, close grip bench press as main exercises
-each set till failure - 5-8 reps
-3 times a week
-works triceps more than biceps
-goal: muscle growth.

I don't know how to split those in 3 balanced workouts/ week.

Thanks in advance.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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#1, you don't want to do each set to failure, its counterproductive

Day 1 Squats, Bench, Dips, Wide Pull ups, Close Grip Bench

Day 2 Squats, Hamstring Curls, Chin Ups, Drag Curls, Military Press

Day 3 Squats, Tricep Dips, Elevated Diamond Pushups, Deadlifts

Yes, squatting 3 times a week, but its very effective and really causes a lot of muscle growth for the entire body
 

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I don't want to get my legs (which are not chicken legs) huge and my upper body to seem smaller compared to them.
 

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Pozitron said:
I don't want to get my legs (which are not chicken legs) huge and my upper body to seem smaller compared to them.

Won't happen, your upper body will benefit from the hormone released from the squats
 

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Pozitron said:
Hey yo' fit guys out there!

Need e program that:
-includes: squats, bench press, chin ups, dips, deadlifts, bicep curls, close grip bench press as main exercises
-each set till failure - 5-8 reps
-3 times a week
-works triceps more than biceps
-goal: muscle growth.

I don't know how to split those in 3 balanced workouts/ week.

Thanks in advance.

Here is How I would do it...

Monday: Squats
Wednesday: Bench
Friday: Deadlifts

Or from a muscle building view..

Monday: Legs
Wednesday: Chest/Arms
Friday: Back

If you want strength, work up to 3-5RM's in the big 3. If your more into muscle building 6-12 reps. Now just add in the appropriate exercises on the following days and your on your way.

The KEY is to gradually make progress over a period of time. Whether its an extra rep, set, or you added 5lbs from last week. Work hard and be consistent! Also, you dont need to go to failure all the time. Save a little gas in the tank once in awhile.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Thanks you, guys!
 
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