"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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help me lose body fat

derby1

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anyone assist me on losing body fat?

im banging some right muscle on, id say my diets not bad i dont have any fried food whatsoever apart from a curry once a week

i take creatine and a few other supplements but i cant take any illegal stimulants(full on speed) as i suffer from pyschosis ocd and some other mental health issues which are all pretty dead at mo which is good

any not so heavy stimulants? diet tips advice?

i do 40 mins of cardio a day but it aint coming off round the torso as quick as id like

i know you cant target it but its annoying

any advice?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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stovepipe

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You didn't mention taking any days off, so I would at least give yourself a day or two a week away from exercising to let your body heal. Also, there is no need for creatine as it will add water weight seeing as you're trying to lose weight.

How old are you?

The #1 reason (imo) the weight isn't coming off is proper nutrition. Try counting your calories for a month, eat only whole foods, drink lots of water. Use BMI calculator to see how many calories you should be taking in at your age and height and subtract around 20% from that number.

Not sure what "banging some right muscle on" means. Add some weight training to your WO plan.

Maybe get your test levels checked, they maybe on the low side.
 

Derek Flint

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Cut out "bad" carbs such as sugar, pasta, bread.
Protein should make up 60% or more of your diet.
Also google the Glycemic Index to learn what types of food to eat and what to avoid.
 

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What does a typical day of eating look like for you?
 

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Drink nothing but water. Green tea is acceptable.
Stay away from simple carbs.

HIIT Cardio

Sleep for 8+ hours. When you wake up, go on a brisk walk for 20 minutes on an empty stomach.
I would recommend Yohimbine supplement, but since you are having mental issues, I would urge you stay away from it.
Keto diet is good for fat loss.

This is a fat burning coleslaw recipe. I did not like the taste of it, but you can give it a shot:

Good luck.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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