"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Help me get over my extreme negativity/defeatism with women

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my best friend is 5'11 195 7% BF and he has had multiple women tell him he is too big and too ripped


it just doesn't look healthy or natural and face looks sickly. Why would you want to get below 9 to 10% BF dude? you look like a cancer patient
With weak facial bone structure, your face will look worse with sub 10% bf levels. With strong bone structure, your face will look better. Nothing a few CCs of Radiesse couldn't fix for those of you with weaker bone structure (cheekbones/jaw).

I range and look best at 8%-10%. Any lower than that requires too much time (which I don't have) and compromises my energy levels.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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With weak facial bone structure, your face will look worse with sub 10% bf levels. With strong bone structure, your face will look better. Nothing a few CCs of Radiesse couldn't fix for those of you with weaker bone structure (cheekbones/jaw).

I range and look best at 8%-10%. Any lower than that requires too much time (which I don't have) and compromises my energy levels.

I have a very strong jawline/chin as you saw and I think even for me 8 is too low
 

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Op you ain't as good looking as you think, especially now we've seen the car pic, you did it for reassurance, you need constant validation
 

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I have a very strong jawline/chin as you saw and I think even for me 8 is too low
You don't need 8%. 10% is sufficient. I guesstimate based on the stand-up munchkin pic in the OP, you're about 20% bf. Accordingly, to get down to 10%, you will have to lose 19.5 lbs of fat. Then you'll be sporting the 6s of your dreams pal.
 

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Op you ain't as good looking as you think, especially now we've seen the car pic, you did it for reassurance, you need constant validation
He looks alright. His swag and confidence is ate up right now. I know he will perk right up if he can get his life to where he can get good pvssy on demand.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Swag and confidence?? Blokes a narcassist if there ever was one

May aswell spk 3rd person
 

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Swag and confidence?? Blokes a narcassist if there ever was one

May aswell spk 3rd person
If he a narcissist he needs to drop that narcissism. It obviously isn't helping him. He needs to humble himself and start all over lol.

That current image will keep him stuck exactly where he is at!
 
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