"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Help me get over my extreme negativity/defeatism with women

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my best friend is 5'11 195 7% BF and he has had multiple women tell him he is too big and too ripped


it just doesn't look healthy or natural and face looks sickly. Why would you want to get below 9 to 10% BF dude? you look like a cancer patient
With weak facial bone structure, your face will look worse with sub 10% bf levels. With strong bone structure, your face will look better. Nothing a few CCs of Radiesse couldn't fix for those of you with weaker bone structure (cheekbones/jaw).

I range and look best at 8%-10%. Any lower than that requires too much time (which I don't have) and compromises my energy levels.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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With weak facial bone structure, your face will look worse with sub 10% bf levels. With strong bone structure, your face will look better. Nothing a few CCs of Radiesse couldn't fix for those of you with weaker bone structure (cheekbones/jaw).

I range and look best at 8%-10%. Any lower than that requires too much time (which I don't have) and compromises my energy levels.

I have a very strong jawline/chin as you saw and I think even for me 8 is too low
 

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Op you ain't as good looking as you think, especially now we've seen the car pic, you did it for reassurance, you need constant validation
 

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I have a very strong jawline/chin as you saw and I think even for me 8 is too low
You don't need 8%. 10% is sufficient. I guesstimate based on the stand-up munchkin pic in the OP, you're about 20% bf. Accordingly, to get down to 10%, you will have to lose 19.5 lbs of fat. Then you'll be sporting the 6s of your dreams pal.
 

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Op you ain't as good looking as you think, especially now we've seen the car pic, you did it for reassurance, you need constant validation
He looks alright. His swag and confidence is ate up right now. I know he will perk right up if he can get his life to where he can get good pvssy on demand.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Swag and confidence?? Blokes a narcassist if there ever was one

May aswell spk 3rd person
 

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Swag and confidence?? Blokes a narcassist if there ever was one

May aswell spk 3rd person
If he a narcissist he needs to drop that narcissism. It obviously isn't helping him. He needs to humble himself and start all over lol.

That current image will keep him stuck exactly where he is at!
 
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