"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Help Me Gain Weight

Rondecrew317

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Hey guys. I am 18 right now (turning 19 next yr) and at the height of 5'9, I only weigh about 125 lbs. I have been stressing to put on some weight but I dont have such a good appetite and I get tired of food too easily. My dad was even skinnier when he was my age so I guess its genetic. Is there ANY where I can gain weight easily? Like some supplements? or some food that will help a lot? Homecoming and Prom is coming up and I want to look my best.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Eternal

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Moved to Health and Fitness.
 

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I had the same problem at the same age.. what you need to do is pig out. Go get a subway (they have lots of carbs), eat meats & proteins.

The best suppliment is called Creatin. Go to your local GNC or whatever to buy it. But the thing is you must workout with this; you dont have to go to the gym but you can do pushups, situps, and use a chair for dips. You MUST drink LOTS OF WATER when you take this.. otherwise you will just get bloated.

Your going to have to increase your appetite.. do this by stuffing yourself so that your stomach feels full like you just ate an entire turkey at Thanksgiving, this will stretch out your stomach and cause your appetite to increase.
 

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Go to the gym. Exercise your large muscle groups such as thighs, chest, back...Leg exercise is the most effective way to stimulate your appetite and body system and thus gaining weight.
 

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I was 135 Jan 2002.......Im now about 165......30lbs of muscle in a year can be done........very simple.

1. Eat Big
2. Lift Big

I suggest www.wannabebig.com check the forums they are gold. Help me ALOT!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yeah... don't listen to Seeph. Creatine is just going to be a waste of your money at this point. You don't want water that gives you a "fake" big, you wanna get bigger.

You need to do as the other guys said, start hitting the gym, and stimulate muscle growth. The reason your body is skinny is because you do nothing to shock it into building muscle, and you are fortunate to have a metabolism that doesn't store much fat.

If you start lifting, and do it intense, your body will respond by building muscle, and making you bigger. In addition, you'll eat more, because you'll be more hungry.

So go get swoll!
 

Rondecrew317

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well gaining muscle is great. BUt I just dont wanna stay boney and skinny. Cuz I konw people that dont excerse a BIT and then when they a shirt on, they look pretty built and in shape. And if I workout right now, I think I'll just be VERY VERY cut but I wanna put on some decent weight first, and then workout so I can get BIG.
 

Rondecrew317

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and also. Is there a way I can SLOW my metabolism? cuz I think I have a fast metabolism which burns calories too fast
 

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There's a sticky at the top of the forum for bulking up. Pretty good.

By the way, it takes awhile to gain some good lean mass. So you're still going to be a toothpick when prom comes around. Don't stress it. Just have fun, you already got the date.
 

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It's a bad idea to "gain weight" and then start working out, mostly because I think that gaining weight and getting fat will just keep you lazy and you might not move onto the working out portion.

Find a friend to work out with, and then do just that. Who cares if you're the skinny guy at the gym who can bench 40 pounds? When you're done, go home, eat a lot of pasta and some whey, and put a couple of potatoes in the oven.

You're making excuses for yourself, and I'm going to tell you something: your problems are nothing special. I used to be the guy with little appetite and little motivation. Start eating more, and it's a habit you'll fall into. I'm hungry right now and I just had a big bowl of oatmeal.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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you have to eat big to get big. that doesn't mean "pig out". eat good foods. try to consume roughly 1.5 grams of protein per lb of bodyweight. eat foods like eggs, tuna, oatmeal, whole wheat bread, natural peanutbutter, cottage cheese. don't have processed food because its high gi. high gi = digested quickly, and whatever is not used is stored as fat. lower gi foods like oatmeal are good sources of carbs.

don't depend on supplements, they are really overrated. all you need is whey protein. consume a couple scoops of whey protein in water post workout. if taken it milk, it will slow the digestion, which you don't want.
 
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