"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Amw406

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So I had pretty good luck, telling girls they earned a few points in my book when they do something right. Then telling them not to get too ****y. I need a good follow up when a girl starts complaining when I revoke points.

ex)

Me: You just lost two points.
Hb: what points

Any good comebacks for that?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You started with 5 points you just lost 2 and when you get to 10 I will give you my # ;)......if you got her # already incorporate something else.
 

Naughty Ninja

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Amw406 said:
So I had pretty good luck, telling girls they earned a few points in my book when they do something right. Then telling them not to get too ****y. I need a good follow up when a girl starts complaining when I revoke points.

ex)

Me: You just lost two points.
Hb: what points

Any good comebacks for that?

A gold star and a pat on your helmet.
 
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