"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Help me find a book for my friend

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My buddy has been going thru some rough times with his marriage. He's the quintessential "nice guy" and his wife is a piece of work. They are scarily similar to Stu and his controlling gf in "the Hangover."

I want to give him a book to help him out. I'm looking for suggestions. I would prefer more of a broader life perspective to a PUA book.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nothing preachy. I would give him a book of stories, or a story about your typical nice guy getting crushed by the world and women.
 

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Alle_Gory said:
Nothing preachy. I would give him a book of stories, or a story about your typical nice guy getting crushed by the world and women.
I would give him the book of Pook.
 
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