"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Help Me Decipher the Code

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Dapper Swindler

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Hey guys, sorry this may be just a waste of time. Some girl at match.com winked at me so I checked out her profile. She seems cool but I'm not ready to buy a subscription to e-mail people without having better pictures and profiles yet. However, she says in her profile that her e-mail address is in there as a code. I don't think she's serious, and I couldn't find anything. But I'll give the link to her profile and maybe someone else can find it.

http://www.match.com/profile/showpr...-8a7d-4175-8151-7127dcc5cf13&pageurl=replynow
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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gm8384

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I don't see anything that catches my eye, but you can try the usual screen name on AIM.
 
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DJ_Dork

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The thing about online dating is that in order to get a date is that you have to be a good looking man because the picture is the first thing you see or you have a funny/****y personal that seperates yourself from others.

Otherwise if you're an average/ugly guy then you'll have a better chance in the real world.
 
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