Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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help me deal with this AW

TheNewGuy

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JLW said:
The reason I ask is because she sounds a lot like my ex, who was an AW, and did a LOT of the same things, and i just recently broke up with her. That would be TOO much of a funny coincidence if this girl was my ex. If she is in fact my ex, then stay the hell away from her. She has a huge list of problems. I would definitely fvck her a few times, cuz damn she's fun in bed, but i wouldn't pursue a relationship with her because she's messed up in the head.

After reading that first post, I realize that it definitely wasn't her for a bunch of reasons.

But anyway, for an LTR, you really need to be extremely picky. They need to show to you that they are loyal, truthful, good girls. And they need to show that to you through their actions, NOT what they say.

Any girl can say, "Oh I never cheated on any of my bf's" or anything like that, but theres no way of telling if its true. Avoid getting too attached.

Don't tell her that you're qualifying her for an LTR, obviously, but examine her closely. See how she acts and decide VERY carefully whether this girl is worthy.

Another thing to realize is that you're 16. You really shouldn't be tied down. I do not advise it at all.



So my advice to you is this: You hooked up with this girl. Good job. Don't pay TOO much attention to her. Get a couple more girls. Get their numbers, go on dates with them too. In the meantime, look at her actions and if you think she is worthy of an LTR with you. You can do this with the other girls you get numbers from, also.
Thanks for all the help. I realize the majority of what your saying is true. I swing in and out of these moods, right now I'm kinda sorta out.

I thought she was trying to use me today, so I just confronted her about it and we talked that out too. I have some trust issues, and one of the good things this girl has done for me is realize that. I don't know if she realizes shes doing this, but she is.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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