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Help me buy clothes for my body type, in Canada

SmoothTalker

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Hey guys, I am hoping some of you may be able to help.

So here is my 'problem'. I consider myself have a pretty nice body, 5'11, very slim but athletic build. Meaning, my waist is very narrow but I have comparatively broad shoulders, and due to diligent working out I have pretty developed pecs and lats giving me that v-shape.

This is great and all, but when shopping for clothes, it can be a pain in the butt. My style is to wear well fitting clothes. I hate baggy clothing, and after all want to show off the physique, but I also don't like it when it's super tight to the point where I look gay. But because the average person is fat and out of shape these days, it's very hard for me to find clothing that fits properly. It's either huge in all the wrong places, or if I go for smaller sizes, it fits well around the waist, but then my chest looks like I'm about to enter a wet tshirt contest. Also aside from size, most clothing doesn't even have any shape these days - notice how it's always pinned on mannequins to make it appear like it fits.

So, where should I shop to find things that will suit me? I have seen similar threads for the US, but up here we don't seem to have the vast majority of the stores suggested in those threads. I've had some luck with Banana Republic recently, but I don't want everything in my wardrobe to be BR.

Any Canadian DJ's have some tips?
 

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i know exactly how u feel. i have huge chest and very broad shoulders due to me being a nationally ranked butterfly swimmer. It requires all upperbody.

im 5'11, 165, v-shaped, and to make it worse i have chicken legs which means most of my weight is in my chest/shoulders/back.

My body size technically should be medium but im forced to wear large because a medium won't fit around my chest/broad shoulders. Below the waist im fine but for dress shirts i have to wear large. at some points when i start lifting alot i even get close to busting out of my large tshirts. i gave up on finding the perfect fit and just make do with what i have.

Suits are a major problem for me haha...don't know if u have the same problem there.
 

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Club Monaco all the way

Their sizes are form fitting and they have XS all the way up to XL.

Oh and their clothes look hot - it's like the more metro version of Banana
 
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