"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Amir0n

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i got this problem... there is a girl that is perfect sweet nice everything...
here sister is model and she looks like here... she looks like Aishwarya Rai...
but she doesnt have a high self esteem... she likes me but has a boyfriend...

normally girls come to me and if i like a girl i get her... not because im beautiful but because i know to play the game... but i have never bin in this postion before... so now im asking my Don Juan brothers advise... i would do anything to get them to break up...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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charlie brown

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i would say, keep being the man. if she likes you more than her bf shell come to you. i also wouldnt ever bring him up or assume if anything happens between you that its on. focus on the fun you have with her
 

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but she doesnt have a high self esteem
This doesn't sound good.

If you want to break them up, you just have to outdo her boyfriend. Be more fun to be with, more interesting, more or a DJ, etc.
 

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I would jus wait and see what happens with them. Hopefully if she likes you more she'll break up with him.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You want her more cause you cant have her. Move on and get all the other girls you can get.
 

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well twotyme your right i love a challange... and if i go fore a challange that means she is worth it... and im not going to lower my self bij killing this dude... :D

i already out do this guy in every way i can... i think the problem is in that all here freind know this dude and the dudes friend know here freinds... so i dont know if that is possible to get them to break up...
 

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You need to let her go as a prospect right now. Hit on other girls and practice your game there. If you just want to hook up with her its definitely a possibility so keep barking up that tree. But if she'll cheat on her boyfriend, she's open to cheating on you once you get together. So let their relationship fall alone while you're solidifying your game and she's watching jealously.
 

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Liqk i like your aproach... i get other relationships and make her jealous... that aint a problem... any other tips all welkom...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Amir0n

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than you know why i do anything... :D look up a pica of aishwarya Rai she is the most beautiful girl in the world... perfect :D...
 

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Welllllllllllll!!!!!! lets here! OK u saying she likes u but has a boyfriend? She likes her boyfriend more than u? She scared to break up with her boyfriend? Her boyfriend gonna kick ur ass?? Why isnt she breaking up with him herself? After u ask urself those questoins, try to answer em. Than thats when u will know what to do!! Good luck,, And for all the people, that wanna chat about girls or anything, or need any help just pm me shydude0825
 
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I'm in the same boat with one girl.

Like the past week we set up a date or two but never could get it to happen and then on the day that we were gonna go to lunch she mentioned that she got back with her boyfriend. She said that she broke up with him because he was too needy or something and one weekend she went camping with her friends and he wouldnt stop calling her or her friends about her. Well this is when i started running game on her slowly trying to turn it up a notch but the other she mentioned her BF and I was pretty disappointed because she seems like a great girl who needs a better guy. Well, a few hours later i forgot that she got back with him and I asked her if she was still taking me to lunch and she said "If you're cool with having my boyfriend pick us up. Wait, he's real jealous and he'll probably kill you." The part about the BF being there was fine with me but the thing about him fighting me was not cool in my opinion and I nexted her. Unfortunately she sits next to me in class in my first class so I don't know whether I should keep trying to get her or should just ignore her.
 

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i geuss she likes him more than me... but im not sure... why she isnt breaking up here self i think because to go long back... im i afraid he is going to kick my ass... lol no way i could kill 3 of him his a *****... everybody is saying he is a nerd etc... and i dont what is so specail about him... but she is fine very sexy...

no i told you i would help if i could... well darrell talk to here... find out what she wants... is she worth it... and what kind of bad ass mofo is this guy... if she is woth it and she want you and the guy is a ***** defenitly go for it... if only the guy stands in you way i would go for it and ask a freind or somthing to help you out with the probleem... if you start talking to here than say things like... i dont understand us... i like you just let me prove it... or make here chose between you i would get crazy is this girl im talking about would have don it to mee..
 

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sheesh...
you cant make her choose between you (the friend ) and the boyfriend.
be the challenge. act like shes ok to talk to and joke around with but act like you arent that into her. intrige her interests. make her chase you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Amir0n

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penkitten said:
sheesh...
you cant make her choose between you (the friend ) and the boyfriend.
be the challenge. act like shes ok to talk to and joke around with but act like you arent that into her. intrige her interests. make her chase you.
oke that is a good advise for me... but for the other dude he told it that i think the girl likes him... so than make here chose...
 

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Amiron if she has a boyfriend ask her how its going. Dont try to land any moves on her because thats not right and if it was my girl i would kick your FCKING A55!!!

and yeah ur sig is stupid... sounds like the key that bums follow...
 

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DasaniWater said:
Amiron if she has a boyfriend ask her how its going. Dont try to land any moves on her because thats not right and if it was my girl i would kick your FCKING A55!!!

and yeah ur sig is stupid... sounds like the key that bums follow...
my sign is good it means somthing... but first thing act like a DJ... aint right... damn... that sound like your still a *****... he kick my ass lol ll kick his ass... if you wanna talk **** go to some ***** forum...

LOL if you talk about aint right than you will never get a girl... know some words Don Juan told... why wenn a girl takes our hard and you find a second girl how takes it to that only the first girl can be lucky and the second one cant... well why cant i be lucky... not right people what do you think...
 
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