"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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help me again pls. to all DJ's, i want an immediate advice!!!

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My GF cheats on me twice that is why i dont feel i can trust her this time.
This guy that she like is her classmate..... and everytime she goes early to school, i feel something different.

i want to breakup with my GF but its hard for me..... i don't know what to do? i feel so damn lonely, depressed.... i dont know why this is happening to me...... the more i ignore her the more deppresion i felt.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Wow.. ur in the philippines too. Where in?

Just by ur name I could tell u were pinoy.. Hehe..
 

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Originally posted by tatlongxxx
My GF cheats on me twice that is why i dont feel i can trust her this time.
This guy that she like is her classmate..... and everytime she goes early to school, i feel something different.

i want to breakup with my GF but its hard for me..... i don't know what to do? i feel so damn lonely, depressed.... i dont know why this is happening to me...... the more i ignore her the more deppresion i felt.
Do you and your GF have friendster accounts? I would like to investigate on the testimonials for further analysis.

It seems ur 26.. And how old is this girl?
 

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If you are feeling depressed and lonely while WITH her, then what's the point in being in a relationship anyways? Being in a relationship should have more benefits than hardships. That should be true to everything you do, otherwise it's all worthless.

Guy, she cheated on you once. I don't know how you let her by that. Then she cheated on you again, I don't see what's the point. Look at it this way. Would you ever cheat on her?

By assuming you've came to this site wanting help because she's done bad things, I'd think not.

Why are you letting this girl treat you worse than you would ever treat her?

Do not date someone who doesn't care for you. It's just a waste of time. While you are like the crying wife who sits home and waits for her husband to come home from his affair at work, she's out getting it on and having fun. FIGURE IT OUT.

Drop her, go meet new people. I promise you that if you do, you'll most likely end up in a much better relationship. Don't lower your standards. You are the man. No woman should treat you badly. If she does, then you move on, and that's the end of it. If she was a guy and she constantly lied to you and messed with you, would you put up with it?

FUCK NO.

She's treating you worse than a male friend would.

Ditch this bitch and move on. I know it's tough to get it to heart, but get it in your mind and just DO IT. If you're this involved, the next few weeks will be killer. Ignore her, forget about her, meet new people, BE HAPPY. Enjoy the things you like to do, rather than wonder about what she's doing.

If she cheats and you let her get away with it, what makes you think she wouldn't do it again?
 

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24. i dont know if she has a friendster. Actually she's my bitc* fiancee
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You gotta do what you gotta do! U know what you gotta do.

End it with her, as time passes it will be easier. If you stay with her, you will only fall deeper into your hole!
 

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thanks NRM, I appreciate your advice.

Actually she's my bitc* fiancee that is why my heart is still attached with her. Our marriage, plans were settled before this was happened. My family and relatives treats her as my wife.

I know how to move on, its on my mind already. but its freaking me out, everytime i ignore her is the more loneliness i feel.

CAN YOU TEACH ME HOW TO IMPROVE MY MINDSET?
 

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Re: thanks NRM, I appreciate your advice.

Originally posted by tatlongxxx


I know how to move on, its on my mind already. but its freaking me out, everytime i ignore her is the more loneliness i feel.

CAN YOU TEACH ME HOW TO IMPROVE MY MINDSET?
Of course it is the most loneliest you feel when u ignore her! But it has to be done, u will feel like absolute sh*t for a while, but this is all about being a man and being strong! Find yourself other ladies to date and end it with this one once and for all! For week or months u will feel like sh*t, but eventually you will feel better and better until you feel good again. Better than feeling sh*t forever and marrying a ho right?

Now u just have to find the courage within to make the change!
 

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So she's wearing a ring you gave her. I bet that ring costed thousands. If I were you, I'd take her out, get her drunk, **** the living daylights out of her, slip off her ring while she was in a drunken coma, and carry her out to the street where she could sleep like the worthless road harlot she is, and never let her return. She cheated on you twice!? You let her do it again!??? Once is enough for you to treat her like dirt and drop her.

I guarantee if you do this she may hate you, but she will respect you.
 

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Originally posted by tatlongxxx
My GF cheats on me twice that is why i dont feel i can trust her this time.
This guy that she like is her classmate..... and everytime she goes early to school, i feel something different.

i want to breakup with my GF but its hard for me..... i don't know what to do? i feel so damn lonely, depressed.... i dont know why this is happening to me...... the more i ignore her the more deppresion i felt.
WHAT???? BREAK UP WITH HER DUDE!!!!! I CAN'T EVEN BELIEVE YOU LET HER CHEAT ON YOU ONCE!!!

You will NOT improve your mindset until you GET THIS ANCHOR OUT OF YOUR LIFE! Get this nutty cheating slut out!!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The reason why you feel lonelyness is because you don't have any back up pvssy/women. I am wondering why your even here if your not trying to create women in your life. Even ltr's should have back up plans.

You need to follow the rules of this site if your going to post and contribute. The rules are read the bible and do a boot camp.

During your boot camp your mind will be focused on getting other women and you WILL forget about the pain your feeling from that ho assed fiance of yours.

It should of been over after her first cheat on you. This ho must have your punk ass wrapped around her finger. It's time for you to cut that finger off...Clean. That means no more contact from her. Total break.

Fawk the loneliness. You WILL live through it. Only a symp/wimp assed faggot fool will commit suicide over a bytch.

So get ya butt out there and get some more women. Make sure that ho see's you having fun and dating all these other girls. The pain she will feel will be worth it all.
 
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Oh shyt. I forgot Your phillipeano. WTF. I didn't know you guys acted like chineese guys. Now their women boss them around. I thought you guys were like the nigga's of the asian community homie.

All of the American ones that I know have a ton of women and cheat on their wives or girlfriends. They are the ones breakin hearts not the women they date.

You must be a nerd version of your race. Cause a real flip...woulda knocked that bytch out and kicked her physically to the fawking curb after kickin her ass down the street.

No offense homie.
 

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Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Oh shyt. I forgot Your phillipeano. WTF. I didn't know you guys acted like chineese guys. Now their women boss them around. I thought you guys were like the nigga's of the asian community homie.

All of the American ones that I know have a ton of women and cheat on their wives or girlfriends. They are the ones breakin hearts not the women they date.

You must be a nerd version of your race. Cause a real flip...woulda knocked that bytch out and kicked her physically to the fawking curb after kickin her ass down the street.

No offense homie.
LOL
 

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Re: thanks NRM, I appreciate your advice.

Originally posted by tatlongxxx
My family and relatives treats her as my wife.
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Well, if it's your family/wedding plans you are worried about in this situation, then maybe it's high time your family knew exactly what this woman has been up to.

Life is too short for this sh*t man. You gotta end this, because if you marry this woman, you will be put through endless torture.

F*ck, I hate reading about sh*t like this.
 

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Get the ring back & dump this slvt. Make sure everyone KNOWS why you dumped her. I don't care where you live, what color your skin is or what your culture is like.

NEVER TOLERATE DISRESPECT.:mad:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Guys! i already met someone.

Well, i have a backup of 2 girls. actually i'm flirting with them.. and i have one backup GF, we been together for almost 1 year. but i have a bad situation with her also.

She is 24 and her brother is 23, they are so closed to each other. Sometimes her brother kiss her on cheek and lips like we do. Sometimes he hug her tight like also we do. changing her clothes in front of him. They are in the same room, sometimes at the same bed. There was an incident happened, her brother told me this on our first month of our relationship in front of her sister.

here it goes!
While she was sleeping, her brother kissed her on her lips and totally she likes it and fuc*ng carried away. (its a torrrrrid kiss my men!). i dont want to believe what was happened next. I ask her about it, she said she's only dreaming of ex-boyfriend.



"IS THIS FLIRTING?"
what can u say about it?
 

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Re: Guys! i already met someone.

Originally posted by tatlongxxx
Well, i have a backup of 2 girls. actually i'm flirting with them.. and i have one backup GF, we been together for almost 1 year. but i have a bad situation with her also.

She is 24 and her brother is 23, they are so closed to each other. Sometimes her brother kiss her on cheek and lips like we do. Sometimes he hug her tight like also we do. changing her clothes in front of him. They are in the same room, sometimes at the same bed. There was an incident happened, her brother told me this on our first month of our relationship in front of her sister.

here it goes!
While she was sleeping, her brother kissed her on her lips and totally she likes it and fuc*ng carried away. (its a torrrrrid kiss my men!). i dont want to believe what was happened next. I ask her about it, she said she's only dreaming of ex-boyfriend.



"IS THIS FLIRTING?"
what can u say about it?
In my opinion, the incident that happened above was clearly incest.

But it's only a kiss though right? Were they intoxicated with drugs or alcohol? Hm...
 

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Simple solution: NEXT Her.

Then post the nudes, on SoSuave. Com! Just kidding.
I'm half-flip and I used to live there. There are too many gorgeous girls to let one ruin your life. Move on and Good luck bro!
 
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