Oh the evils of internet dating. I chatted with a girl who didn't have a pic. She described herself and I thought what the hell. This was the first mistake.
In our first convo on chat I was very laidback and a threw in the tiniest bit of Ross Jeffries like stuff just to see how it would work.
That first chat lead us to her calling me that night. She seemed OK but nervous.
We did another chat on Saturday night for a while. After this chat I did some things about "incredible connection" like patterns. After that convo she called again Sunday and we talked about meeting late Monday afternoon if possible.
On Monday I met her for a drink at a local bar. She was very nervous and not very pretty. I chatted with her and still decided to take her to a hotel and fawk her. I massaged her and really held back for a while until I finally gave in. Then I proceeded to feel like **** about myself.
Her body is OK, but her face, and her personality turn me off.
She is very interested in me. I didn't have the heart to tell her I wasn't interested. I decided to tell her that my heart is broken about my ex gf and I'm not ready to date (tried to get it AFC enough to even fake a tear. Don't get me wrong the break up has been hard on me). Unfortunately this girl took it to mean "I'll help you get over her"
Since then she has called everyday. She wanted to go out with me last night but didn't. She called again today and I talked to her for a while.
So I have several questions.
1) How can I let her down quickly or just stop talking to her
2) Is Call Block an option. If so how to do it
3) What would you do?
In our first convo on chat I was very laidback and a threw in the tiniest bit of Ross Jeffries like stuff just to see how it would work.
That first chat lead us to her calling me that night. She seemed OK but nervous.
We did another chat on Saturday night for a while. After this chat I did some things about "incredible connection" like patterns. After that convo she called again Sunday and we talked about meeting late Monday afternoon if possible.
On Monday I met her for a drink at a local bar. She was very nervous and not very pretty. I chatted with her and still decided to take her to a hotel and fawk her. I massaged her and really held back for a while until I finally gave in. Then I proceeded to feel like **** about myself.
Her body is OK, but her face, and her personality turn me off.
She is very interested in me. I didn't have the heart to tell her I wasn't interested. I decided to tell her that my heart is broken about my ex gf and I'm not ready to date (tried to get it AFC enough to even fake a tear. Don't get me wrong the break up has been hard on me). Unfortunately this girl took it to mean "I'll help you get over her"
Since then she has called everyday. She wanted to go out with me last night but didn't. She called again today and I talked to her for a while.
So I have several questions.
1) How can I let her down quickly or just stop talking to her
2) Is Call Block an option. If so how to do it
3) What would you do?