"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Help!!! (ljbf)

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Help!!! (ljbf) PLEASE RESPOND!!!

I am in LOVE with my best friends younger sister. She knows how I feel because I told her and we talked about it. She told me that she really likes me and thinks I am a wonderful person, but only thinks of me as a brother. I am 4 years older than her and our relationship is brother/sister. What do I do.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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you stop right there, its oyur best freinds sister he wont be best pleased because of the age difrence and because it will be akward as oyur his best freind, bro's before hoe's
 

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You go and have a lot of cold showers and stay out of her bed. try to find other women and immerse yourself in them. She is most likely not interested and pursuing that course you are risking your friendship.
 

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Haha!
 

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It means your like a soldier on D-day, dead before you hit the water.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dont go for it. IMO, it'll ruin your friendship with ur bro, she's too young and she hasnt proven her feelings... If she had special feelings then she wouldnt see u as a brother, unless she has a screwed up mind..
 

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Originally posted by Gsoildier777
[she] thinks of me as a brother.
that means she finds sex with you as revolting as incest.

i think that was on a ******** post a while ago
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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Originally posted by Void
It means your like a soldier on D-day, dead before you hit the water.
no that is wrong to right that, very wrong just like denial of the holocaust is wrong, so is denial of the seocnd world war.

You think how is that denying it, well it is, you are comparing osmthing huge that whiped out 50 million people to somthing that in comparasion is totaly trivial.

think im over doing it, well imagine both your parents die in a car crash, if i compare that to missplacing your car keys, how would that make you feel? its exactly the same principal, by comparing somthing bad to somthing trivial you are basicly refusing to notice how bad the bad thing is.
 

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
no that is wrong to right that, very wrong just like denial of the holocaust is wrong, so is denial of the seocnd world war.

You think how is that denying it, well it is, you are comparing osmthing huge that whiped out 50 million people to somthing that in comparasion is totaly trivial.

think im over doing it, well imagine both your parents die in a car crash, if i compare that to missplacing your car keys, how would that make you feel? its exactly the same principal, by comparing somthing bad to somthing trivial you are basicly refusing to notice how bad the bad thing is.
When I first came to this site, I made a thread just like this. Someone told me that, and I realized that once a friend, always a friend.
When I asked about getting out of the friend zone


Here I'll tell you the best thing you can do, if you want to get out: massive kino. If she reciprocates then she may have interest in you. Then it breaks down the personal barrier you have between her.
 
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