"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Gsoildier777

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I am in LOVE with my best friends younger sister. She knows how I feel because I told her and we talked about it. She told me that she really likes me and thinks I am a wonderful person, but only thinks of me as a brother. I am 4 years older than her and our relationship is brother/sister. I am 17. What do I do.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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AlexTheGreat

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so you're hitting on a 13 year old ?

First of all, read the bible. You have a Oneitis on her, and that needs to be cured before anything else.

Also, she has just LJBF'ed you ... to get out of there, you need to change her entire opinion of you. You need to show yourself in a sexual light (and it is possible that at such a young age, she might not respond so well to it), and leave the "bro/sis" thing behind. Start using ****y&funny on her ... you need to break her down and show her that you're not her teddybear.
 

Void

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Jesus christ you already made a thread about this.
'Closed'.

Stop.

Reply to your old post.
 

Mr. Debonaire

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dude

dating a girl this much younger then you doesn't work at your age

firstly, sex. she probably won't do it
secondly, different needs and wants
thirdly, different maturity levels

dont bother
 

Mr. Debonaire

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just realized, you did post the EXACT SAME THREAD!!!

in the famous words of eddie murphy

Originally quoted by Eddie Murphy
"Liddian!!! Go get my pistol!"
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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