"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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help interpeting a girl

cjfoshu

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ive liked this girl for like a few weeks now and she keeps sending mixed messages like one day last week she bent down to pick up a pen and put her head rite on my lap and stayed till the teacher yelled (i know it sounds like a lie but it isn't), on other days she like touches me when she walks by and still others she completely ignores me. i recently got my license and i showed it to her and she asked "can you drive me around sometime?" i said "yes." and she finished by saying "thanks Chris." so basicly i want to know what i should do because ive been playing hard to get and acting as if i didn't like her, pretty much what's my next step
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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gmillar

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Next time she puts her head in your lap, hold it there, unzip you pants, and let your mantackle free. She'll thank you later, after you both get expelled and charged with indecent exposure or lewd conduct or something.

Seriously though, next time you see her waiting for a bus or whatever after school just take her home, and stop for coffee or something on the way.
 
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