Twistedreality said:
Get that kick in the ass as soon as possible. You've dug yourself a hole that will only get deeper and darker. It's time to work on yourself and forget about this "soul mate". Cheers!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Get that kick in the ass as soon as possible. You've dug yourself a hole that will only get deeper and darker. It's time to work on yourself and forget about this "soul mate". Cheers!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Nelford
Don Juan
You had the chance to get those guts in the beginning, but you choose platonic friendship over casual sex. While you were out drinking with her you should have told her exactly what you wanted instead of being the nice guy. Why do you want to marry a women that cheats on her husband?
I am assuming he is as old as 45 and as young as 28. My assumption is based on the fact that the woman is 10-years his junior (and based on how she acts). Not knowing the age...the issue here is that this dude was unemployed for 5 years. Being unemployed for five years during your adulhood life is not a laughing matter.
And NOW that he finally has a job, he is risking it with this crap. I know of several cases in which a man has been fired, after the spouse of the woman that man was pursuing complained to their boss. This dude gets fired, he might not find another job for another 5 years!
That's the DJ way of seeing things, IMO.
And NOW that he finally has a job, he is risking it with this crap. I know of several cases in which a man has been fired, after the spouse of the woman that man was pursuing complained to their boss. This dude gets fired, he might not find another job for another 5 years!
That's the DJ way of seeing things, IMO.
Don't bother. Even if you some wild, passionate affair...they never leave the marriage. Do you really want to go through years of that kind of crap? No, you don't. Find a quality woman who wouldn't cheat. Remember, if they cheat with you, they'll cheat on you.
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LOL.... nothing new here... 80% of cheating and infedelity happens with coworkers or classmates.. basically we tend to find mates where ever we spend most of your time...LOL
Your wife /girlfriend is at work and she is flirting and fing guys there that is life adn denial is 90% of the game so dont expect admition..
Your wife /girlfriend is at work and she is flirting and fing guys there that is life adn denial is 90% of the game so dont expect admition..
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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No women is "taken"... they are shared around among men just cause you dont know who else is fing "your woman" does not mean its not happening.tick37 said:All I had to read was the title. Get your head out of your a$$ and find available women. This woman is taken and is not for you. If you get hung up on this woman, you'll get hung up on any woman. Don't be a fool!
Regardless of you philosophy, she's off limits.DonGorgon said:No women is "taken"... they are shared around among men just cause you dont know who else is fing "your woman" does not mean its not happening.