Twistedreality said:
Get that kick in the ass as soon as possible. You've dug yourself a hole that will only get deeper and darker. It's time to work on yourself and forget about this "soul mate". Cheers!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Get that kick in the ass as soon as possible. You've dug yourself a hole that will only get deeper and darker. It's time to work on yourself and forget about this "soul mate". Cheers!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Nelford
Don Juan
You had the chance to get those guts in the beginning, but you choose platonic friendship over casual sex. While you were out drinking with her you should have told her exactly what you wanted instead of being the nice guy. Why do you want to marry a women that cheats on her husband?
I am assuming he is as old as 45 and as young as 28. My assumption is based on the fact that the woman is 10-years his junior (and based on how she acts). Not knowing the age...the issue here is that this dude was unemployed for 5 years. Being unemployed for five years during your adulhood life is not a laughing matter.
And NOW that he finally has a job, he is risking it with this crap. I know of several cases in which a man has been fired, after the spouse of the woman that man was pursuing complained to their boss. This dude gets fired, he might not find another job for another 5 years!
That's the DJ way of seeing things, IMO.
And NOW that he finally has a job, he is risking it with this crap. I know of several cases in which a man has been fired, after the spouse of the woman that man was pursuing complained to their boss. This dude gets fired, he might not find another job for another 5 years!
That's the DJ way of seeing things, IMO.
Don't bother. Even if you some wild, passionate affair...they never leave the marriage. Do you really want to go through years of that kind of crap? No, you don't. Find a quality woman who wouldn't cheat. Remember, if they cheat with you, they'll cheat on you.
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LOL.... nothing new here... 80% of cheating and infedelity happens with coworkers or classmates.. basically we tend to find mates where ever we spend most of your time...LOL
Your wife /girlfriend is at work and she is flirting and fing guys there that is life adn denial is 90% of the game so dont expect admition..
Your wife /girlfriend is at work and she is flirting and fing guys there that is life adn denial is 90% of the game so dont expect admition..
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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No women is "taken"... they are shared around among men just cause you dont know who else is fing "your woman" does not mean its not happening.tick37 said:All I had to read was the title. Get your head out of your a$$ and find available women. This woman is taken and is not for you. If you get hung up on this woman, you'll get hung up on any woman. Don't be a fool!
Regardless of you philosophy, she's off limits.DonGorgon said:No women is "taken"... they are shared around among men just cause you dont know who else is fing "your woman" does not mean its not happening.