"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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help iam stuck

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Well Hello all ,
iam new here but i read alot already .
My probleme is you know i got the theory but cant do it :(
Just today: i was going to take my bike and go home when i saw this amazing hb9 saying goodbye to her friends .
She was walking toward her car , while i was O.O and couldnt do **** , i felt so dumb dam...
I need something to ignite the bomb who is in me now :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You just have to toss yourself into the fray, even if its a bad attempt its still an attempt. You learn from your attempts and when you get your confidence up so will the number of women who will want you. Just stay positive and enjoy what you do.

-Grey Fox
 
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Relax kid - it is called a 'cold approach' and takes experience and a lot of confidence. You should have memorized her license plate number and did a search!! It helps if you have police officers as friends to look up the plates!!
 
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yea iam willing to succeed at the game more than ever ,
iam just so obsessed by my appereance , fear of rejection , what the girl think of my look and such ...

Everyday i can smile more , talk to random people interact alot with some ppl i know and such but CANT approach the friggin HB iam looking at ZZzzz .

thx for help sorry for my bad english :)
 
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Just do it, everytime you do it you get better and it gets easier. Just have an attitude that you could get any girl you wanted when you do a cold approach.

After you do a few, you will feel more relaxed now that you know what to do. The big thing is to not let rejection get to you. Rejection doesnt even phase me now because I don't focus all my attention on women, I dont "need" them so to speak.

The bottom line is just grab your balls and go. Who gives a **** what happens?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ok ok
Listen what happened this after noon :

I was cooking a quick stuff , when i saw thru my door this neighbour GF that was stuck with no Bf inside , and she couldnt open the door .

She knocked at my door asking for some help , i DJ her a little but i know she is my neighbour GF so didnt do any #close.
She was hot like HB 8 american (i live in france , peace)

Well it was smooth all the time i helped her, i just opened the door for her literally inserted the key in and opened .


Tehn i told to my self that if she cant open a door when she have the right key she dont deserver me !
 
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