Help, I think I am too friendly

[Ultra Magnus]

Guys,

I had a talk with a girl last night who i am not interested in. She told me that i am super fun to talk to and very approachable. Basically, I seem like a very nice and friendly guy to talk to. However, I am not sure if it is a good thing or not.

I think when you seem too approachable, girls think of you more of a brother type rather than a boyfriend type. But I can't help being friendly and talkative. Is there any way I can use my outgoingness into a tool in my attempt to become a DJ?

Thanks!

 

[Oscar Wilde]

This is the typical first post of the Nice Guy.

You need to read up on The Bible - as someone remarked here before, it's hidden way up there at the top of every page

Go, read, comprehend. Come back, ask specific questions.

Good luck, and welcome to the new world.

Oscar.

 

[bman]

you can never be too friendly.

 

[Starman]

Being approachable is good..being friendly is good..but your problem seems to be the point at which a girl does approach you..it sounds like immediately you try to become their "friend" when in the back of your mind you are imagining taking her behind some dirty outhouse and having filthy monkey sex with her..

Drop the friendliness act as soon as you lure them in..and start with the Techniques outlined in the bible(and I dont mean "Though shall not kill")

 

[trajhenkhet]

Your friendliness is not the problem. Later on it will be a boon. Wait and see.

 

[wizzard]

i would say, that being nice, is a positive thing WHEN used in conjunction with the 'Take-away' (not chicken balls, and an egg fried rice tho....lol)