"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SuaveStarboy

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what do you do when a gil flirts with you, and you dont have any interest in her. there is this girl dj'ing me shes about a 3 or a 4, and shes a good friend, and everything i just havent felt about her like that. what should i do. i am worried about loosing a friend. help
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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M2k961

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Hi,

Haha, I'm in the same situation. Only my girl is a 5-6, and likes to wear tight clothing. I'm considering dating her, but for now I just mess with her. Kino a lot, eye contact, the whole shananigan. Probably is driving her nuts. Heh, I'm cruel :)

But as for you, don't do anything. Just pretend nothing is happening :)

Edit: On second thought, that might make you out to be a loser who can't understand when a girl is flirting with you. You might have to give her the dreaded LJBF! Hah!

Thats my advice.
 

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Ok first off, a chick can't "DJ" you, Chicks aren't Don Juans.

Second, you really have two choices.

1) Go up to her, and tell her strait off your really not that intrested in her, be gentle about it, but it may have to happen.

2) Ignore her as much as possible. I know its cruel, but maybe she'll get the idea. When she starts hitting on you, blatently go off and do something else. She'll eventually get the picture.

Thirdly. What do you care about having a girl as a friend. The only good girl is a girl you can get some p*ssy from, not a friend. The more you have girls as friends the harder it will be to become a true Don Juan. I abandoned all my girl friends when i saw the light, and never regreted it. Just don't be an a$$ about it, because girls talk.

Work on becoming a real man, not an AFC, which you still sound like.

And one last thing: READ THE BIBLE :)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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SuaveStarboy

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well im not having sex till im married, and its wrong to use girl for sex. they are not objects.
 

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Don't assert your morals as if they are superior.

To deal with this chick, I personally would just ignore it. If she has any trace of intelligence she'll make the realization herself. Path of least resistance if you don't want to mess with the delicate balance of things here.
 

THA REALNESS

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]You wouldn't let her just give you head?

That's what i do .My female freinds are ALWAYS trying to Dj me .I just e-mail once in a while and pop up when i'm bored and just get some brains ya know is not a big deal. Once in a while i fukkk them from the back just to keep them in line and to make their below average selves feel "PURDY".Sometimes they feel exploited but i just whip out the vaseline. LOL.

They are usually 5 and 6's though,anything less we be uncivilized.

I make them do my homework ,buy me food at school ,give me rides when i have no gas ,make dozens of calls on their cell phones ,steal they're cd's and their brothers videogames etc. .They are sort of like my prison *****es ,except i don't beat them up .


It's no big deal they are my freinds and help them alot also, i miss them when they go away ,i look out for their stuff i 'm ALWAYS there when they need me....it's just a domination thing to me ,you know it's like i'm supposed do it.It's not freinds with benefits its just....me having the **** and her being a *****.

The trick is to never string them along emotionally and not going overboard with it.
 
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Vincent

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Wow that was really bad story. Don't tell anything like that again, thats very un Don Juan like.
 

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So what's Don Juan Like to you? Tell us story.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Gigalo, you crack me up.
 
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