Help, I feel like a hypocrite

[Dhoulmagus]

My friends are thirsty single guys and I'm the only one in a relationship pretty much. They like to go to bars and pester me to hit on other trashy women with them, but I just get drunk and stay on the sidelines. I do keep re downloading tinder and my gf noticed, but I proved to her that I just troll around and not message any girls on there. I respect her and do not want the relationship to end, but I kind of feel like a hypocrite for doing this. If I were to make a topic about her going to clubs/bars with her friends or her having tinder than yall would be like <insert passive aggressive behavior> or just straight up dump her. Why is it alright for me to do it, but not the female?

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Sometimes I think you troll this place too. But I'll humour you with a condescending response anyway.

1) What makes you think it is 'alright for you to do it, but not the female'...? Who told you what you were doing is 'alright'? Are you f*cking 12 years old or something?

2) Are you seriously that bored, do you seriously have nothing better to do than go around the internet trolling people who have little or no impact on your life....? Make you feel cool, does it? Make you feel like a BIG MAN? Enriches your soul, does it?

That, my friend, is the one and only true hypocrisy of internet trolling: going around ripping other people for their behaviours and opinions, when actually the trolls own existence is so empty that they have to externalise their frustration by mocking others. And in the most cowardly way possible.... anonymously, at a distance over the internet where your 'victims' can't retaliate with the smack in the chops that you so deserve.

Grow the f*ck up you sad d!ckhead.

One hundred million years of human evolution and this is where we are at... FFS

 

[LMFAO]

Why is it alright for me to do it, but not the female?

Who said it is? You follow your own values. If you are in a serious relationship and don't want to see other girls then don't. It really is that fvcking simple.

 

[mangotot]

Hypocrisy is perfectly ok and is actually a useful life skill. You'll find all the successful people in the world excel at it. They are quick to point fingers at others in the name of morals but in the same situation, they'd do the (so called) inappropriate thing without a flinch.

 

[EveryPostHere]

So you need the validation and get on Tinder, but would likely dump the girl if she did the same. Nothing wrong with that, it's the DJ sosuave way.

 

[mangotot]

The only problem is the OP is not joining his mates and hitting on the 'trashy girls' and staying on the sidelines. You shouldn't bother with tinder because tgere is a chance you'll get caught. Dump that $hit.