"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi im new here, as you all can see:D, and im not so god at this, eh so if i posted on wrong forum, than im sorry for that :( or something like that.. Plz help =)

My question.
i have some realy problems, so i hope you guys could help me, its about me...

I have a Bad self-confidence, i have a problem to contact other people/get knowing other people/have EYE contact with people, talk with people especially girls cuz im so shy.. :( and I have a problem to lead the conversation cuz when im talking with people it could might be a very short conversation :/ cuz im a very shy and very still person

so if someof you guys could giveme some links about how to get rid of my shyness, get better self-confidence and how to get better knowing about her or write something what i should do

and im sorry again if i posted in wrong forum, im not so good to find things yeah you know what i mean
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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