"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Help! for understanding of a friend!!!!

bern

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My very close friend is a guy who hangs out with girls. He has guy friends and is popular in general, but just likes to hang out with girls. He is NOT gay and is not pimpin.

any similar situations?
im just trying to understand him.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Five To One

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He prefers hanging out with girls is what your saying but he doesnt ever make a move on them? Is he just very afc and thinks that is the best way to get girls?

How do you know he is not gay? becasue every single one of my girl friends I have either hooked up with or tryed to hook up with at one time or another.
 

K.Pez

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i knew a kid like this... he hung out with girls from his church a lot. people would ask them if he was gay (i knew the girls he hung out with, too). then his baseball season came around and out of nowhere he started hanging out with those guys all the time and never with those girls. now he has a gf.
 

I'm in the Mood

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bern said:
im just trying to understand him.
Ignore what everyone on this board says and just ask him.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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average frustrated chump... basically a sucker 'nice' guy dude who thinks the 'traditional' methods of getting chicks work.
 
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