"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Help! for understanding of a friend!!!!

bern

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My very close friend is a guy who hangs out with girls. He has guy friends and is popular in general, but just likes to hang out with girls. He is NOT gay and is not pimpin.

any similar situations?
im just trying to understand him.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Five To One

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He prefers hanging out with girls is what your saying but he doesnt ever make a move on them? Is he just very afc and thinks that is the best way to get girls?

How do you know he is not gay? becasue every single one of my girl friends I have either hooked up with or tryed to hook up with at one time or another.
 

K.Pez

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i knew a kid like this... he hung out with girls from his church a lot. people would ask them if he was gay (i knew the girls he hung out with, too). then his baseball season came around and out of nowhere he started hanging out with those guys all the time and never with those girls. now he has a gf.
 

I'm in the Mood

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bern said:
im just trying to understand him.
Ignore what everyone on this board says and just ask him.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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average frustrated chump... basically a sucker 'nice' guy dude who thinks the 'traditional' methods of getting chicks work.
 
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