"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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help for Friday....

guitarkid

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Hey everyone,

I'm a newcomer here, seems like a pretty cool place.

So here's the deal:

I'm 15 years old and I've been going out with this girl for about 6 months. I've had 4 or 5 girlfriends but I've been her first boyfriend. We've basically just done making out/feeling up/kissing stuff. It's fine with me because I don't want to pressure anything, this girl is really awesome and I wouldn't ever pressure her.

My situation is that this girl is shy and I always lead. On Friday I'm going to hang out with her and a friend of mine with his girlfriend just watching movies and hanging out. Later I think we will take a walk at the park and I'll get an opportunity. Basically this time, I want to be able to make HER make a move on ME. Just tease her so much that she can't handle it and pretty much just get her excited.

I know this has probably been address before, if it has and you can give me the link for the thread, I'd greatly appreciate it. Thanks guys.

Rob
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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toddC

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Just go in for a kiss liek you normally would and pull away..make her want it more than you...tease her...kino her like crazy ...and when u go in for that "fake" kiss give her deep eye contact and just pull away...do this more than once and she won't be able to hdnale it shell jump on you.
 

shydude

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Hmmm well maybe she stll fells little uncomfortable with u? take her dancing, or take her somewhere what she really enjoys. Like she plays profesional tennis and u suck at tennis. Play tennis with her. Let her teach u how to play, that way she will be teaching u, loughing at how u play. Well it is just an example. Make her lough, tell her funny jokes. And so on..
 

guitarkid

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Thanks for the advice, but I know she's comfortable. Ironically, she is good at tennis and I suck, and we played and she taught me. We also went dancing, twice. I am kind of a ****y, funny guy and I kind of bust on her all the time, works wonders.

It's going to be a friendly hang-out thing. Then afterwards it will just be me and my friend and his girlfriend and we're going for a "walk." And even better, to not make it look like I'm just trying to get some, I've told her that we're going to leave my friend and his date just so that I can "help him out." What I was looking for were just specific techniques on how to get her to make a move. It's not that big of a deal, just curious on what you guys could share.

Thanks todd and shydude
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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elmo

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well, what you want to do is take her for a nice long drive. try listening to a little...uh...wtf!?...you can't even drive yet! damn! i had a foolproof plan if you could drive. get back to me when you get your license.
 
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