"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hey everyone,

I'm a newcomer here, seems like a pretty cool place.

So here's the deal:

I'm 15 years old and I've been going out with this girl for about 6 months. I've had 4 or 5 girlfriends but I've been her first boyfriend. We've basically just done making out/feeling up/kissing stuff. It's fine with me because I don't want to pressure anything, this girl is really awesome and I wouldn't ever pressure her.

My situation is that this girl is shy and I always lead. On Friday I'm going to hang out with her and a friend of mine with his girlfriend just watching movies and hanging out. Later I think we will take a walk at the park and I'll get an opportunity. Basically this time, I want to be able to make HER make a move on ME. Just tease her so much that she can't handle it and pretty much just get her excited.

I know this has probably been address before, if it has and you can give me the link for the thread, I'd greatly appreciate it. Thanks guys.

Rob
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just go in for a kiss liek you normally would and pull away..make her want it more than you...tease her...kino her like crazy ...and when u go in for that "fake" kiss give her deep eye contact and just pull away...do this more than once and she won't be able to hdnale it shell jump on you.
 
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Hmmm well maybe she stll fells little uncomfortable with u? take her dancing, or take her somewhere what she really enjoys. Like she plays profesional tennis and u suck at tennis. Play tennis with her. Let her teach u how to play, that way she will be teaching u, loughing at how u play. Well it is just an example. Make her lough, tell her funny jokes. And so on..
 
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Thanks for the advice, but I know she's comfortable. Ironically, she is good at tennis and I suck, and we played and she taught me. We also went dancing, twice. I am kind of a ****y, funny guy and I kind of bust on her all the time, works wonders.

It's going to be a friendly hang-out thing. Then afterwards it will just be me and my friend and his girlfriend and we're going for a "walk." And even better, to not make it look like I'm just trying to get some, I've told her that we're going to leave my friend and his date just so that I can "help him out." What I was looking for were just specific techniques on how to get her to make a move. It's not that big of a deal, just curious on what you guys could share.

Thanks todd and shydude
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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well, what you want to do is take her for a nice long drive. try listening to a little...uh...wtf!?...you can't even drive yet! damn! i had a foolproof plan if you could drive. get back to me when you get your license.
 
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