"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

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Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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JCKey618

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My friend has a situation with this girl. They became good friends over a course of a year and started going with eachother a couple of months ago. They both fell in love and recently my friend said he was having problems with her and I heard her say "Sometimes I'm tired of him always being around."

Well, they broke up about 2 weeks ago (she broke it off) and my friend (Darnell) was all tore up about it. Then they started acting all flirty around eachother again and he told me that she said that she was having serious family issues at the time and that she still loved him and that she was 90% sure that when the family issues were fixed, she would get back into a relationship with Darnell.

Darnell is all distraught over whether he should wait for this girl to get her sh*t straight or just look for someone else. And if he does wait, how long is too long?
 

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Something like this has happend to me once. We got back together but broke it off a week later for something that I can't remember. Anyways, I wouldn't do it and just LJBF her.

But if he really loves her, then he will get back with her. Just my guess..
 
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Advise him to be more of a challenge, and tell him how.

Recently did that with a friend too. His new relationship is coming along alright so far :cool:
 
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what i would do..

As long as he is single, enjoy it. If he still likes her and she comes crawling back its not going to matter what he's done while they were single. at least it shouldnt. I would always take advantage of these little "breaks." But i'm also not much of a relationship guy heh. He's got to show her that he's in control and not just some guy she can throw around.

Idk just my .02
 
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