"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Help....fat chicks love me attracting wrong attention

PeasantPlayer

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Hey how is everyone doing? New here sure this thread has been done a bunch of times, but the search feature on this site sucks:yes:

In terms of the dating game I would say I got a lot of it down, but thankfully I still have a lot to learn which is the part that keeps me hungry for more. When I was younger I was really skinny and as I got older I slowly and gradually went from skinny to medium to stocky and chubby to down right OBESE. I lost most of my OBESE weight (75 pounds).

Flash forward I am working out building confidence....would say I am average at picking up chicks....picked up some decent looking girls, but for some reason fat chicks have always LOVED me. Now I know fat chicks and girls in general have varied taste. But it is like they know they can like me:eek: I have no problem with that at all. I ain't going to lie I have been with a few cool chubby chicks....
But I want to know if I am vibing wrong when I go out? Or maybe carrying my low self esteem baggage from when I was fat? I want to attract that HOTTER girls for now....when I settle down that will matter less until then im trying to smash out:box:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Be friendly with the ones you aren't attracted to but don't go out of your way to text them or talk to them. Make sure you never hang out one-on-one and show zero interest.

Girls always have hot friends (or at least cute friends). Use her as a pivot to the hotter chicks.
 

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Fat girls are usually attracted to nice guys. The more "bad boy" you look the more you will attract bimbos, and the less you will attract the whales. Fat girls seem to get inferior when they meet a badass looking dude, equal to poor people who hate rich people. They know you are better than them and they can't have you, so they get mad.
Believe me, I know what you mean. When I was 6'3 160 lbs fat girls were drooling over me. :D
 

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Oh I attract pretty girls to. But the fat chicks drool over me like lobster dinner. Its like I unlocked the wrong door and letting them all in.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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PeasantPlayer said:
But the fat chicks drool over me like lobster dinner. Its like I unlocked the wrong door and letting them all in.
Hahahahaha!
 

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I feel your pain, man! Mine goes in cycles. I'll go months with attracting all sorts of fatties....really big behemoths, fat girls that used to be hot but their best days are well behind them, fat girls with a cute face but not much else to look at, and on and on and on. Then I'll go months when I can't attract a cute girl much less a fat one. Then my shortest cycle is I'll attract a couple of hotties all at once but once one loses interest, they ALL lose interest at the same GD time it seems like. Swear to God. I can have 5 hotties interested in me at one time and I'm trying to spin plates and decide which one to date, then one drops off and by the end of the week they've ALL dropped off. It's like they know that one bailed so they all bail at the same time.
 
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