To start things off I would like to say that I'm exclusively single again and broke off my LTR for the second time in 2 months. I've been with the same woman for several years and right before the break-up we’ve had a serious talk about the relationship. For so long this woman was so deeply in love with me to the point that she couldn’t bear the thought that I wouldn’t want to marry her and now she's been feeling as if her love for me is slowly fading. She held on to the relationship attempting to get back the love she once had for me and told me that she feels like it’s a one person relationship and feels selfish for wanting the breakup but she really needs to sort her mind out and decide if she can really spend the rest of her life with me. She also wants that time to see if she can regain her feelings back. When I try to cut off all contact she leeches on and begs me to not do that and states that she never wants to see the day that I will never be in her life. It hurts me also to cut off contact but I feel that this is the only way I can truly be over her if this is really a case of a low interest level. I feel so confused and want to know if there is any way to actually save this relationship. If there is what should I do on my part so that I can have her interest level soaring back to the roof? Any help would be appreciated.
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Don't even waste your time with advice from women about this. That is the worst thing you can do. You are a man and you are born with natural gifts to deal with women. You just need more confidence in yourself.
Don't even waste your time with advice from women about this. That is the worst thing you can do. You are a man and you are born with natural gifts to deal with women. You just need more confidence in yourself.
whew... your in luck im here or else your will just have a million replies to "just next her"
read this and study carefullt this 2
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=82346
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=100939
seize contact is not enough she must see that you can enjoy your life even without her...
be a challenge...make her beg ,,,ba patient,,,, AFC STUFF WONT WOK....
BE PATIENT BE PATIENT AND STUDY THIS 2 TREADS
read this and study carefullt this 2
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=82346
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=100939
seize contact is not enough she must see that you can enjoy your life even without her...
be a challenge...make her beg ,,,ba patient,,,, AFC STUFF WONT WOK....
BE PATIENT BE PATIENT AND STUDY THIS 2 TREADS
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This is a repetitive chain that you need to break. You cut contact, she begs for your return, you get back together, she loses interest again.
The only way to break that chain is to TRULY move on. Do not answer her calls, do not phone her, do not email her. Your miserable excuse for a relationship will continue to get dragged through the mud if you continue contacting her.
Sometimes I don't know how you guys even have the time to play these kinds of games with women.Desdinova said:
I would quickly lose interest in this chick and I would go out with another one.
Chicks like this are far to immature for anything serious.
What I do want to know however is why do these things happen in the first place? How can you love someone so much for a while and then feel like there is nothing there eventually? It doesn't make any sense. She just recently told me that she "wants to expirience life a little more" and wishes to "not be tied down". I take it as saying she needs someone new and she's just bored.
youre 21 right, im assuming shes probably along the same age. im 23 my ex was 25. i hang out with a lot of poeple around my age. some are in a realtionships and some arent. but the general consesus is that regardless if they are in a relationship or not everyone talks about fvcking other girls even when they have gf's. they want to be adventourous and explore options. the 20s is your prime. i had a gf i wanted to fvck other girls cause im young and there is so much other sh1t out there. i was like you thinking the same and everything. when we broke up it sucked she would always say the same things your gf or whatever she is is saying. i dont know but the bottom line is youre young shes young go have fun unless you feel insecure about finding someone else which is a bad situatoin. be a man feel confident and youll feel fine. youre going through an emotional rollercoaster which could go on for a while. do you like feeling like this? if you next atleast for a little bit see how you feel. seems like you just need someone there. thats probalby why shes acting like this. fvck her find someone else dude your young quit wasting your time with a b1tch that doesnt feel the same go find someone else that feels the same and will be there for you no matter what.
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jigga has some good points...
well the onlything to break that chain and completely win her ..is never for taken for granted..if she does somthing wrong or u dont like daman walk away..punish her...leave her always refresh that to her mind..and what ever flaws you have tryto fix it anmake your self better thatn befor..but never never be taken for grantedthat is the key to break that chainDesdinova said:
These things happen for several reasons. We've all been there. There was that point, a precise moment in time, when giving her the time and attention she craved, you wanted to do something else. Not because you didn't want to set bad precedent, but because at that moment, you were irritated by her. And she sensed it. It goes downhill from there.Adrian said:
The reasons this happens is because you or her were fake. One of you, or maybe both pretended to be something you were not. Perhaps not on a grand scale, but there was some pretending, nonetheless. You were both attracted to each other. But, physical attraction only goes so far without similar values and ethics.
You want her interest through the roof. This lass essentially tells you that she wants you in her life, but that she's wanting to see what else life has to offer - eat her cake and have it, too.
This can only be acceptable if you are prepared for her to date someone else, someone who has more backbone.
When you're weak, you're beat. She may be quite a wonderful person to hang out with, with that awesome smile, sexy voice and an a$$ made of stone. But, if she's wanting to see what's out there, you have to let her know that you are going to see what's out there as well.
Shakespeare wrote in "Romeo and Juliet", a line by Benvolio, I think it was. Perhaps Mercution. Either way - the line was (paraphrased)- I shall take your swan and line her up with the other ladies and your swan will look a crow.
He's trying to tell Romeo that the chick he's chasing is a twit, and not worth the trouble. That's what most of these posters are trying to tell you as well.