"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HELP Dont feel like women anymore.

navyseal2101

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And by this I dont mean i'm gay, so no funny stuff :cool: . I lately had a girl who messed up my game. When I started with her I was doing great an she responded, but I have to say she's good. She knew exactly where thigs were going and made me always feel one step behind. Well I totally screwed up b/c she turned me into a AFC. I now have my confidence and game back, but for some reason I dont feel like even trying to go for women. I have absolutly NO sexual desire or anything. If a 10 walked up to me and asked for sex I would probably say no and just sit in my room all day. I still think of that girl, but i dont think its love really anymore as i did before, just like she totally screwed with my mind in some way. What should Ido or have you had the same experience ever?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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wabu07

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ask the girls for your balls back. shes probably wearing them as earrings right now.
 

noirsake

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it sounds like you may have depression or something like that. you have a loss for things you love or should love and thats a symptom of depression.
 

theunflushables

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So you don't feel like chasing tail, no big deal. Do something to better yourself. Learn a new language, master your golf swing, work out, its all up to you. Taking a break does not make you less of a man. Infact this is exactly what you should be doing. It will give you hella more confidence, even if you already have it. Knowing you're ok by yourself, really takes the edge off things.
 

navyseal2101

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Thanks for replies. I still feel like this, but it just lead to me latest problem b/c I picked up and older chick from it. UGH. I cant wait till im older, parents can suck.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

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