"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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HELP Dont feel like women anymore.

navyseal2101

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And by this I dont mean i'm gay, so no funny stuff :cool: . I lately had a girl who messed up my game. When I started with her I was doing great an she responded, but I have to say she's good. She knew exactly where thigs were going and made me always feel one step behind. Well I totally screwed up b/c she turned me into a AFC. I now have my confidence and game back, but for some reason I dont feel like even trying to go for women. I have absolutly NO sexual desire or anything. If a 10 walked up to me and asked for sex I would probably say no and just sit in my room all day. I still think of that girl, but i dont think its love really anymore as i did before, just like she totally screwed with my mind in some way. What should Ido or have you had the same experience ever?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wabu07

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ask the girls for your balls back. shes probably wearing them as earrings right now.
 

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it sounds like you may have depression or something like that. you have a loss for things you love or should love and thats a symptom of depression.
 

theunflushables

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So you don't feel like chasing tail, no big deal. Do something to better yourself. Learn a new language, master your golf swing, work out, its all up to you. Taking a break does not make you less of a man. Infact this is exactly what you should be doing. It will give you hella more confidence, even if you already have it. Knowing you're ok by yourself, really takes the edge off things.
 

navyseal2101

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Thanks for replies. I still feel like this, but it just lead to me latest problem b/c I picked up and older chick from it. UGH. I cant wait till im older, parents can suck.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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