"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Help dealing with ****blocking

timmylivingalie

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Greeting everyone I am a recovering afc getting back in the game. This site is wonderful with tons of information. Was just wondering how you guys deal with ****blocking where I am the ratio is usually 10 dudes to one chick so even if you getting anywhere with a chic someone will do their best to screw it up. Any advice on dealing with this?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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FlyGuyM

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WOW...i know exactly what your talking about... That **** used to happen to me all the time; but i guess if your game is super strong ****blockers cant do nothing to you... just try to keep more than one girl at all times just incase 1 girl doesnt work out, you'll have more to fall on, i hope this is helpful man, i hate being ****blocked
 

TheJazz

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Screw AMOGing. If some wads are going to try and ****block you, odds are the women know what they're up to. They're smarter than you think. Just play it cool. Do your thing and ignore their stupid ****blocking attempts. You need to have a sense of "the smallest dogs bark the loudest, the biggest ones are quiet" mentality and let the cards fall into place. After all, you're the Don Juan, they're the other guys. The odds are already in your favor, my friend.
 

NorwegianDJ

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TheJazz said:
Screw AMOGing. If some wads are going to try and ****block you, odds are the women know what they're up to. They're smarter than you think. Just play it cool. Do your thing and ignore their stupid ****blocking attempts. You need to have a sense of "the smallest dogs bark the loudest, the biggest ones are quiet" mentality and let the cards fall into place. After all, you're the Don Juan, they're the other guys. The odds are already in your favor, my friend.
Which in short is AMOGing. It's not about being the loudest. It's about making them react to you, and just dominating their reality.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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