"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Help dealing with ****blocking

timmylivingalie

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Greeting everyone I am a recovering afc getting back in the game. This site is wonderful with tons of information. Was just wondering how you guys deal with ****blocking where I am the ratio is usually 10 dudes to one chick so even if you getting anywhere with a chic someone will do their best to screw it up. Any advice on dealing with this?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FlyGuyM

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WOW...i know exactly what your talking about... That **** used to happen to me all the time; but i guess if your game is super strong ****blockers cant do nothing to you... just try to keep more than one girl at all times just incase 1 girl doesnt work out, you'll have more to fall on, i hope this is helpful man, i hate being ****blocked
 

TheJazz

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Screw AMOGing. If some wads are going to try and ****block you, odds are the women know what they're up to. They're smarter than you think. Just play it cool. Do your thing and ignore their stupid ****blocking attempts. You need to have a sense of "the smallest dogs bark the loudest, the biggest ones are quiet" mentality and let the cards fall into place. After all, you're the Don Juan, they're the other guys. The odds are already in your favor, my friend.
 

NorwegianDJ

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TheJazz said:
Screw AMOGing. If some wads are going to try and ****block you, odds are the women know what they're up to. They're smarter than you think. Just play it cool. Do your thing and ignore their stupid ****blocking attempts. You need to have a sense of "the smallest dogs bark the loudest, the biggest ones are quiet" mentality and let the cards fall into place. After all, you're the Don Juan, they're the other guys. The odds are already in your favor, my friend.
Which in short is AMOGing. It's not about being the loudest. It's about making them react to you, and just dominating their reality.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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