HELP: Confusing Signals

[ActAsIf]

There is the girl that is a friend, not a close friend. Anyhow, I can't tell if she likes me or not, but I don't like her that way, but I find it makes it awkward at certain points.

For instance, she is always telling me how there is only two things to do in this town 'Drink' or have 'Sex' and she is always talking about making out not with anyone in particularly, but about making out with someone and then them not being a good kisser. She always asking about my past girlfriends and stuff. It's not like I am extremely close with her either, we became friends through an organization and end up seeing each other at events or just out on the town at bars. She almost aways insists on giving me a big ass hug upon seeing me, introduces me to her friends, wanting me to dance. We have a lot of common friends also.

Maybe I am completely misreading the situation, but I think she might like me, and I am going back to school now and I just don't want really deal with her 'crampin' my style so to speak. If I'm at a bar I don't want her comin' up to me and clingin'. Maybe I am sending the wrong signals, but what can I do to tell her there is no interest on that level without saying it flat out and embarassing her.

Thanks...

 

[brat-buster]

heres what you do...........

If you want to get rid of a girl then tell her you have feelings for her, buy her dinners and flowers, call her 10 times a day, tell her she is the kind of girl you could marry, let her walk all over you, and generally act like a complete sap and she should run for the hills.

 

[Jaun_Don]

maybe tell her that you aren't interested her in that way or say something that makes it clear that you are just friends OR set her up with a friend of yours.