"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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help, condom keeps falling off: need advice

rocco

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is there a condom out there that stays on better? i think the main reason why condoms that i use slipp off is because im uncircumsized.. my skin stretches because of the extra foreskin, and hence, condom gets stretched around a lot and falls off easily. need advice please, because i want to continue having sex but dont want to get any std's. advice please.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJinTraining06

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rocco said:
is there a condom out there that stays on better? i think the main reason why condoms that i use slipp off is because im uncircumsized.. my skin stretches because of the extra foreskin, and hence, condom gets stretched around a lot and falls off easily. need advice please, because i want to continue having sex but dont want to get any std's. advice please.

Yea i know what u mean i feel like its always rolling back down. Scares the crap outta me.
 

THE_ADDMAN

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staple it on.
 

rocco

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does anybody know of links to a condom brand model that'll work better? or i think i may have heard of something similar to a ****ring, that keeps the condom on. please serious advice. thank you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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pencil wee wee lol jus kiddin na man i dont know of any smaller condoms than trojan or lifestyle
 

rocco

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spesmilitis said:
get a smaller condom?
condoms dont come in sizes. atleast not for trojan. they just have regular and monster c0ck size.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Are you sure you are rolling it all the way down? I've had condoms come off when I didn't roll it all the way down.
 

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see a doctor and ask him for special condom suscribtion if they have one.
 
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