Help! Chat log with Attention Wh0re - PLEASE COMMENT!

[bacchus]

OK... so there's this attention wh0re who called me late on Saturday night, to tell me she's in love with me and wants to be with me. Then she calls me back 3 hours later to say she didn't mean it. I laugh and hang up on her. Then she calls me again to say that she DID mean it, and that she didnt want to feel vulnerable so that's why she denied it.

This is a chat log from a conversation I just had with her online... any advice on how to handle this bltch? I don't want to date her, but I want her to be a regular fvck. She's the best lay I've ever had.

I can't muster up any game with this fvcking bltch. I always hit a road block.... for some reason, I can't transfer what I do to be successful with other girls to her. I read this and it makes me cringe. I just need you boys to read this and give me a slap.

(FYI... Ive known this guy for about 3 years, we've hooked up many times, always on her terms, and I've been total AFC with her in the past)

Thanks

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Me: i love how you just recycle those three pics all the time... haha
Her: shut it
Her: you don't even have a pic
Her: I don't have any others suitable for display
Her: jerkface
Me: none that are appropriate for public consumption
Her: exactly
Me: i was talking about me
Me: so what up
Her: ahh. okay then
Her: what is umm..hmm.. just got home from work
Me: ______ and ________?
Her: no dumbass
Her: ____ and ____
Me: oh... i didnt realize you were working a new corner
Her: ya, imagine that
Me: am i allowed to talk about girls with you
Me: or no
Me: i forget how our last conversation ended already lol
Her: oh god
Her: sure
Her: drunk conversation.. won't happen again.. EVER
Her: shoot..I'm all ears
Me: but then the next morning, when you were sober, you told me you meant it
Me: but you felt stupid admitting it
Me: so i am confused
Her: ya, so I won't admit or call you drunk again
Me: am i allowed to talk about girls
Her: closed case
Her: shoot
Her: YES stupid
Me: sure?
Her [angry emoticon]
Her: YES
Me: ok
Me: i had like 24 bucks in fees at blockbuster
Me:i went ther elike an hour ago
Me: so i go to the girl at the desk to get my movie
Me: she tells me about hte fines
Me: i ask her if she can waive them
Me: she;'s like "well.. for what reason?"
Me: and i said "because you think i'm sexy"
Me: she just looks at me.. i stare her right down
Her: you said that?
Her: lol
Me: and she's looks around and turns red
Me: and says "sure"
Me: she clears my fines
Me: then when my receipt is getting printed
Me: she hands it to me
Her: probably cause they don't have late fines
Me: i take it, but i dont let go
Her: and you get her number?
Me: she's looks down and is like "you gonna take your receipt?"
Me: and i said "you forgot to put your number on it"
Me: so she stares at me again
Me: then takes it
Her: that's hot
Me: writes down her cell AND her home #
Her: is she 17?
Me: and i smirk at her, take it and go home
Her: omg..... LOSER
Me: ive flirted with her before
Me: UofT girl... so about 21
Her: ahh.. the plot thickens
Her: so much for, "I'm committed.." lol
Her: playa, playa
Me: no no i just thought this was a particularly cool pickup
Me: i think it's one of those ones where you had to be there to appreciate the body language and stuff
Me: she was just looking at me like "are you for real" the whole time
Her: no, I understand.. that's sexy.. cept it used to happen to me all the time when I worked @# the store.. like over 30 times.. it gets annoying
Her: lol
Me: but if a guy like me had come it, it would have actually worked
Me: that's the diff sweetie
Her: +o(
Me: i dont really get shot down much anymore
Me: im a ****y ****er right now
Me: ok.. enough of talking about that
Me: how many sales you make today
Her: congrats Marc
Her: I'm proud of you
Me: and you want me
Her: lol..... nope.
Me: i'll let you save face
Me: but i know the truth
Her: aren't you an angel
Her: no man, it passed
Her: honest
Me: that's ****ed
Me: just think about it...
Me: lol
Her: thanks.. and I need help, yada, yada
Me: nothing happened in between
Me: 3 hours later, it's gone... that's ****ed girl lol
Her: I realized that I was hammered and oh.. nevermind
Her: yep.. gone
Me: cool
Me: but then the next day you told me you did mean it
Her: sorry you were witness to that
Me: so either youre a liar
Her: I was still hammered
Her: I'm a liar
Me: or you sitll want me
Me: lol
Her: u done yet?
Me: i was having fun
Me: but i guess ill stop
Her: sure.. peace
Me: sooo...
Me: you used to do the same **** with johnny eh
Me: haha
Me: too funny
Me: youre gonna get yourself a reputation
Her: oh really?
Me: yeah man
Me:you gotta chill
Me: supress your neediness, its a turn off
Me: not for me, because i dont care to begin with... but if a guy was interested that'd turn him off pretty quick
Her: wow.. thanks
Me: no prob
Me: that's what friends do, look out for each other
Her: **** that
Her: u'r just being a ****y ****
Me: just tough love sweetie
Her: hardly
Me: okie dokie
Her: can we talk about something else?
Her: okie dokie
Her: you have an attitude right now
Her: forget this
Me: you lied to me
Me: sorta disrespectful, dont you think
Her: **** man, I was still drunk
Her: k, I was serious
Me: it's so lame when people use alcohol as an excuse for everything
Her: bye
Me: haha... bye bye
Her: and you don't?
Me: we're not talking about me right now
Her: k, I didn't lie
Her: but I don't wanna talk about that
Me: youve pointed out my faults enough
Her: and I'm not lying when I say it's gone
Her: ohhhh kay?
Her: god you have such an attitude... haven't had your hottub yet?
Me:
Her: ahh
Her: alright then
Her @ least that makes sense

 

[Pimp-sicle]

DOOD!! I just posted a reply to your initial thread about this dumb byatch!!

Look your really barking up the wrong tree here. I know she has BPD, but she's a total byatch anyways!! Look at her attitude with you? She's completely disrespectful and your attracted to that? Girls with BPD are usually your best lay for 2 reasons:

1)They've had a lot of sex, so they know what they're doing
2) They play hot and cold with their sex drive, so the less you get it, the more it seems incredible.

I won't lie, sex with my exgf who has BPD was AMAZING!! She danced for me in slutty outfits, she put whip cream & chocolate syrup all over me, she let me fuvk her in the @ss etc!! However its only as good as you build it up to be. Your going to get sooooo fuvked over from this shiat its not even funny. Look how involved you already are!!

I told you this in my other thread, use the search button here and look up BPD and my user name. These girls are seriously INSANE!!!!! They will fuvk your world over and never leave you alone. My exgf told me the EXACT same thing this girl told you when she was drunk when we 1st met. Imagine that! She calls me to tell me she loves me, when I didn't even know her, and she had a bf of 11 months at the time!!

This byatch is trying to sux you in just the same way, and it looks like its working because your intrigued already.

Run like hell bro!!!!





PIMP

 

[bacchus]

Can someone disect this chat for me? I can't even read it objectively. And please don't just tell me to next her, I know I should do that... I would give another dude the exact same advice. I want to understand this fvcking girl.

(Thanks Pimpsicle, I've actually read your posts before with interest... your girl sounded exactly like this one. I'm trying to understand her... i found a great website, it's www.bpd411.org. There are lots of other ones too.. ****, I even got a book out at the library called "I hate you, don't leave me" about BPD written by a shrink.)

I hate not understanding anything, and I want to understand this girl so I can have my way with her. As sick as that sounds. I'm a bit of a narcissist myself so that could explain this mini obsession.

 

[bacchus]

I should add.. she's never been officially diagnosed with BPD. I just happened to meet her ex boyfriend through a mutual friend, and we had a few beers and figured out that she has it. SHe has threated to cut herself in front of him, and she's called me before with similar threats. She also fit most of the other diagnostic criteria, and all the attention wh0re (histrionic personality disorder) criteria, which overlap BPD.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

What do you want to understand? Your dealing with someone who's mentally unhealthy! They don not process information the same way normal people do. I'm also a bit of a narcissist, which would be the male version of a controlling, attention *****. If you want to understand this girl, then understand this:

She will never have you in mind, she only cares about herself and will do anything she can to protect her thoughts, and image. The chat you posted doesn't seem like anything significant. She's just starting to lay the ground work for the future, when she starts revealing more psycho shiat and trying to make you feel sorry for her. I really hope you don't end up here in 5 months posting about how you knew, but ignored the red flags and then got fuvked over.

Borderlines fear abandonment more than anything else, which is real or imagined. Think about that bro. She could "dream" that your left her alone in a dark alley, then get scared that your going to leave her forever, so she will go fuvk another dood to make sure she's not a lone for long. They also lie like no other, so be careful she will turn against you as quick as she turned for you. Black/White thinking. I really hope you know what your getting into because it doesn't seem like you have a clue.



PIMP

 

[undesputable]

the first part....like the beggining to where you start talking about your pickup at blockbuster, the ***** was being plain and simple disrespectful, i thought you were the ***** and she was the man. If a girl was talking to me like that shed get it.

Ive noticed that girls like when you tell them about girls that you pick up, whenever i tell them about my adventures with other girls they think is so funny and like her they say is sexy and **** like that, so that was good.

but the whole thing of her calling you and saying she loves you....you know id place about as much importance on that as a crack***** trying to suck my ****. i think everything would have been so much better off if you would had been "i hope you didnt mean that **** you told me about loving me" and dropped it. you want this girl to be your ****buddy and i dont see anything wrong with that, but DO NOT get attached to her in ANY way, place about as much imprtance on her as a condom. after all the only purpose of the condom and this girl lead to the same activity.

 

[themanwithnoname]

please don't post chatlogs going over 10lines, thanks.

 

[JH6]

Originally posted by themanwithnoname
please don't post chatlogs going over 10lines, thanks.

exactly I got bored with it after 7 lines.

boo.

 

[Tkman]

Originally posted by bacchus
OK... so there's this attention wh0re who called me late on Saturday night, to tell me she's in love with me and wants to be with me. Then she calls me back 3 hours later to say she didn't mean it.

Why did you pick up the phone ? You know she's an Attention ***** .... you are not curing her but helping her. This is what you need to do ... but I think it's a bit to late now !

Tell her (serious voice) "I have no time for kids games, I thought you were a good girl but apparently not. If you want to be serious then give me a call but if not I suggest you find someone else who is on your level ".

Don't say goodbye and (HANG UP)

watch her trying to call you back and make it up for you ... playa playa

 

[Jake-inator]

My favorite quotes:

Her: omg..... LOSER

Her: I'm a liar

Her: shut it

Her: fvck man, I was still drunk

Me: am i allowed to talk about girls with you

:crackup:

Why do you persist?

This girl is obviously a snobby little b1tch.


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