"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Help catching girl (date at home)

MiraclePuppy

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Hello DJ's out there, this is my first post on this forum! :up:

Anyways, I'm here to seek some advices and tips so girls will get more interested in me.

I've been a little shy-nice guy-insecure b*tch.
She's been in my class for 1 year - and we've been normal friends.
I've never been together with ANY girl, and im 18. So one day I started looking for some pages to read advices and I luckily found the "The DJ Bible".
I've only been on 3 dates, all went wrong because I didn't kino and was too shy.
So I've gone through every important topic there, and I changed and improved myself. I'm now much more confident and secure then I have ever been in my life.
Though, not so confident with women.
But since I changed, girls suddenly start to get interested in me. So This girl in my class is interested in me. Last three weeks she've been sending txt messages to me, and suddenly move at the desk right near me - also smiling alot more to me then she've been doing the last year. She also took her hand and brushed my knee while we had a lunchpause. Well, now I asked the girl home instead of trying to take the girl home after seeing a movie at a cinema and barely talk to the woman. We're going to rent a dvd and relax before we go out and party together. Now, I need some advices of how to make her interest in me get even higher. What music to play, what movies to rent, when to start kino - kiss?, when to do something unexpected, maintain control of the evening.

Any advices helpful, so post everything you can think of.

She's coming 7th July.


Greets MiraclePuppy
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Skilla_Staz

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Movies are boring. Believe me. Everytime I have a girl over, we go play basketball, we play some air hockey, screw around with my iTunes, lay on my futon ;). Have some fun bro. A movie won't make you like her more. Kino shouldn't have a set 'start time' it should just happen. If you sit down on the couch, and she sits close to you, just put your arm around her. Simple. As for the kiss, if she looks up at you, put your index finger under her chin and lift her face to yours, gently, and kiss her. Go from there.
 

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Okay, perhaps I should do some sort of activity with her.
Thing is, we are going out to drink that night, but I asked her over to relax and watch a movie before we drink and hang out.

Well, I'll just think of something we can do. Also I live in the middle of a forest, and there's not so many activities I can think of besides cutting trees.

Perhaps we'll take a little walk instead... :rolleyes:
 

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Going for a walk is always good. Gets you away from other people so you can talk and... well, you might find something else to do ;)
 

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Dude, just chill out. Go out there, and have fun; look, a girl doesn't come over to a guys home if she's not interested. You've got nothing to lose. She's already yours, so stop b*tching and whining about what to do to get in her pants.

Your underestimating yourself. Girls are WEAK with men. We have more power over the opposite sex than you think.

Women talk more about men, then men talk about women. Think about that for a second.

We have the power. Just go do your thing, bro; have a good time.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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It's not quantity that counts; but, quality. How good was that date? Did you have fun? Or were you stressing yourself out over one girl from ONE OUT OF 4 BILLION girls out there?
 

MiraclePuppy

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Contender said:
It's not quantity that counts; but, quality. How good was that date? Did you have fun? Or were you stressing yourself out over one girl from ONE OUT OF 4 BILLION girls out there?
True bro'.. I have learned my lesson.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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