"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Help, can't tell if this girl is going to flake or not

Dhoulmagus

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It's an old girl that I used to hook up with, but I stopped talking to her over the summer because she started playing games. She came back and I invited her over my house to come watch a movie at 8-9. She said yes, but she said she's going to eat her friends house for dinner beforehand. Should I even waste my money buying this movie?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You already care WAY more than you should. She is clearly in control here.

You should be spinning plates at all times and not really giving a sh!t.

Remember --> Always care LESS than the girl. That is possibly the most important rule of all for being a sexy dominant man. When you care more.. you become her beta b!tch. You become the female in the relationship. Bad medicine. :nono:
 

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PlayHer Man said:
You already care WAY more than you should. She is clearly in control here.

You should be spinning plates at all times and not really giving a sh!t.

Remember --> Always care LESS than the girl. That is possibly the most important rule of all for being a sexy dominant man. When you care more.. you become her beta b!tch. You become the female in the relationship. Bad medicine. :nono:
No, I dont feel like wasting my money or time. 10 bucks can buy me a pizza. Im kind of a cheap jew.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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