"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BxPrince24

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Ok, so I believe I've gotten that girls IL back up now. She's gonna come and see me tomorrow. Tomorrow I want to finally kiss her but like I said before, I don't know how. well, basic kissing maybe, but french/tongue kissing, i have no clue.

Can someone break the whole kissing down for me as simple as possible and as soon as possible. thanks in advance.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Unless I'm misreading, I believe you're asking for technique. So . . .

As far as tonguing, I'd recommend not sticking it down her throat. Normally if I tongue it's rather shallow (as in the frontal area of her mouth) and lightly "tongue wrestle" with her. Also be sure to keep those hands moving. Cannot stress that enough. Lower back, back of her neck, etc. Also throw in some licking/kissing/biting (softly) on her neck, nibble the earlobe a little. Also, you may find it beneficial to pull away first. Always leave her wanting more. You do enough of those take-aways and you'll have her jumping on you.
 

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yea, i was looking for the technique. Well I think I've got everything down. We'll see how it goes.

1. Keep breath fresh
2. keep lips a little moist, chap stick or something beforehand.
3. keep hands moving-lower back, back of neck, hair
4. keep lips slightly parted when going in for the kiss.
5. Don't stick your tongue down her throat or have it all over her molars.
6. tease her with the kisses, leave her wanting more.
 

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Sounds like a plan. Just don't overthink it, otherwise you'll probably screw it up. And be sure that you apply the chap stick somewhat lightly, as having super greased lips is definitely not going to get things going in the right direction. Also, something I didn't think of earlier, some recommend, forgive me if this seems unclear or ambiguous, as I'm trying to think of how to say it, using your kisses as a vehicle for your energy/desire. It's like manifesting all of that sexual energy in your lips and transferring them to her. I know that seems like an out-there idea/theory, but if you can understand what I mean then you may find it beneficial. Believe me, she can feel this energy, and it is normally what separates the good kisser from the great kisser. If that makes sense to you then feel free to use it, if not then it's probably in your best interest that you do not attempt as overthinking things normally create sub-par results.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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