"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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BxPrince24

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Ok, so I believe I've gotten that girls IL back up now. She's gonna come and see me tomorrow. Tomorrow I want to finally kiss her but like I said before, I don't know how. well, basic kissing maybe, but french/tongue kissing, i have no clue.

Can someone break the whole kissing down for me as simple as possible and as soon as possible. thanks in advance.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Unless I'm misreading, I believe you're asking for technique. So . . .

As far as tonguing, I'd recommend not sticking it down her throat. Normally if I tongue it's rather shallow (as in the frontal area of her mouth) and lightly "tongue wrestle" with her. Also be sure to keep those hands moving. Cannot stress that enough. Lower back, back of her neck, etc. Also throw in some licking/kissing/biting (softly) on her neck, nibble the earlobe a little. Also, you may find it beneficial to pull away first. Always leave her wanting more. You do enough of those take-aways and you'll have her jumping on you.
 

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yea, i was looking for the technique. Well I think I've got everything down. We'll see how it goes.

1. Keep breath fresh
2. keep lips a little moist, chap stick or something beforehand.
3. keep hands moving-lower back, back of neck, hair
4. keep lips slightly parted when going in for the kiss.
5. Don't stick your tongue down her throat or have it all over her molars.
6. tease her with the kisses, leave her wanting more.
 

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Sounds like a plan. Just don't overthink it, otherwise you'll probably screw it up. And be sure that you apply the chap stick somewhat lightly, as having super greased lips is definitely not going to get things going in the right direction. Also, something I didn't think of earlier, some recommend, forgive me if this seems unclear or ambiguous, as I'm trying to think of how to say it, using your kisses as a vehicle for your energy/desire. It's like manifesting all of that sexual energy in your lips and transferring them to her. I know that seems like an out-there idea/theory, but if you can understand what I mean then you may find it beneficial. Believe me, she can feel this energy, and it is normally what separates the good kisser from the great kisser. If that makes sense to you then feel free to use it, if not then it's probably in your best interest that you do not attempt as overthinking things normally create sub-par results.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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