Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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HELP ASAP - What not to do

English_Bloke

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I have looked at my trend this year and I fell into a trap:

Fall: Great time, built my own power tower - had two girls fighting over me. DJ

Winter: Got intimate with one of the girls, but slipped into Friend Zone ! AFC

Spring: Tried to get out, didnt work - screwed over Prom. Followed LJBF straight down to the note! Argh AFC!

-Im rebuilding my power tower, got gigs in clubs - meet some girls. I got into a fight with my girl "friend", ive come so far with her, I just got pissed over prom. She is now not happy and wants to come back - we are talking tomorrow.

Summer: ? Who knows. May invite her to come alone with me to europe = sharing room = sharing bed, like we were talking about while making out on her couch.

When I talk to her tomorrow, I want to use this to somehow get what I want from her: pvssy - but if I apologize I feel AFC and if I blow her off im being DJ but still it would feel like a wasted year...what do I say?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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TheNewGuy

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English_Bloke said:
I have looked at my trend this year and I fell into a trap:

Fall: Great time, built my own power tower - had two girls fighting over me. DJ

Winter: Got intimate with one of the girls, but slipped into Friend Zone ! AFC

Spring: Tried to get out, didnt work - screwed over Prom. Followed LJBF straight down to the note! Argh AFC!

-Im rebuilding my power tower, got gigs in clubs - meet some girls. I got into a fight with my girl "friend", ive come so far with her, I just got pissed over prom. She is now not happy and wants to come back - we are talking tomorrow.

Summer: ? Who knows. May invite her to come alone with me to europe = sharing room = sharing bed, like we were talking about while making out on her couch.

When I talk to her tomorrow, I want to use this to somehow get what I want from her: pvssy - but if I apologize I feel AFC and if I blow her off im being DJ but still it would feel like a wasted year...what do I say?
Do AFCs get *****? Nope. So how would you doing something that results in poon be AFC?
 

Rocko

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English_Bloke said:
Summer: ? Who knows. May invite her to come alone with me to europe
Can you say oneitis?i mean, come on you've been spending all of your senior year on this one girl, and look where its gotten you. I think a change is in order, i know its hard, but next time the AFC in you starts to break free, shut it out, its just there to mess with you, European chicks are hot, and the dig American guys (from my exp), so don't get caught up over this girl.
 

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I totally understand what you mean, and im sure im under the influence of AFCness - so please sober me up when I say this but I have gotten enough out of her: making out, head, $$ presents (shes a wealthy girl) - that I feel if I just lie straight up and get her back I can get more....just sending it back to how I was in the fall and early winter - power tower (which im building fast again) and then more chics. Is that really wrong, am I totally out of it?
 

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English_Bloke said:
so please sober me up when I say this but I have gotten enough out of her: making out, head, $$ presents (shes a wealthy girl) - that I feel if I just lie straight up and get her back I can get more.
Dont lie, if she sees through it (and girls are good at this) your hosed. Just take a step back and make her come to you. You can only have what you are willing to leave.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dannowillbookem

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well you cant meet a girl two weeks before and invite her to a european vacation. it has to be a girl youve known for a long time or else its gonna be weird. you'll definetly have to cut out the afc act and get tough with her to prepare her for the invite and trip
 
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