"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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OGriley

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so.. theres this girl who hits on me all the time (the one from my other thread) and there r two problems.
1) she has a boyfriend

2) she lives kinda far away.

ive decided i want to date her..

any advice?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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OGriley

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what im lookin for is like. is there a good way to get rid of the boyfriend? and what r peoples thoughts on trying to maintain a long distance relationship
 

WalkingStick

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Eh, YOU cant really (legally) "get rid" of the boyfriend. She's the one who has to do that. If you make a move, she'll decide if she wants to keep him around or not.

As far as long distance, go for it if you want it.
 

Triple T

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JUST DO IT!
EXPERIMENT!

Stop asking questions! Get out there and LEARN!

Just make yourself more appealing/fun/funny/etc. than her bf and shes all yours bro.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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