"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ROOKIE OF THE YEAR

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Last month I was obsessed with porn and masturbation. Now when I finally overcome this issue by stop doing these things for a week, I think I beginning to lose sex desire. So then I tried to think about porn and masturbate, but my orgasm was super weak. Today the same result.
I'm worried because I think I have lost desire of sex and feeling horny. Did anyone had a situation or period of time like this? Is it normal?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Skilla_Staz

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I got bored with porn. Something about having a girl get me off sounded so much better.
 

Fitch

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ROOKIE OF THE YEAR said:
Last month I was obsessed with porn and masturbation. Now when I finally overcome this issue by stop doing these things for a week, I think I beginning to lose sex desire. So then I tried to think about porn and masturbate, but my orgasm was super weak. Today the same result.
I'm worried because I think I have lost desire of sex and feeling horny. Did anyone had a situation or period of time like this? Is it normal?
Age could be a factor. I'm sure if you were with a hot woman you wouldn't have this problem.

Porn sucks. I don't blame you.
 
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