Help a noob out- What's my next move?

[RickHunt]

Girl initially showed interest. We hit it off pretty well in the beginning and i thought everything was going smooth. Asked her a few times to come out with me (date) but she'd always make excuses. Didn't contact her for a few weeks. Spoke to her on webcam during which she said I had become more attractive. I then got a phone call and she asked me if it was my 'new girl'. I told her it was. She asked me if she should leave me to it. I said 'up to you'. She said 'fine then'. I've tried to increase interest level. What's my next step? Should i ring her or let her be the first to contact?

Thanks

 

[TheGambino]

Go along with your new girl and forget the girl that wasn't really interested. You got more attractive to her cuz she found out you have a girl, and that you might lost interest in her. So she tries to string you along again. Your best bet is to focus on the other girl, if she contacts you, give a bit back and let her make dating up, if she doesn't keep it fun and short and tell her your busy and hang up, just like you don't care if she wants to date or not, be indifferent like you would be if you got 8 other options. (Don't be a d1ck, or rude or anything like that, just be fun and talk like you don't care what the outcome is)

Listen up: Calling her, giving her attention won't do it, im serious, im talking out of experience, let her chase you, its the only way. If you bump intoo her in a couple of weeks in real life, make a fun small chit chat and lead the convo to a possible date but let her mention it!

If you let her know your interested in her more then your current chick she will bail on you coz her knowing that you want her is enough for her ego and she will forget you again...

Chicks want what they can't have, give that to em, works best. Believe me.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Kanye Shrug, "Oh Well,"

Girl initially showed interest. We hit it off pretty well in the beginning and i thought everything was going smooth. Asked her a few times to come out with me (date) but she'd always make excuses. Didn't contact her for a few weeks. Spoke to her on webcam during which she said I had become more attractive. I then got a phone call and she asked me if it was my 'new girl'. I told her it was. She asked me if she should leave me to it. I said 'up to you'. She said 'fine then'. I've tried to increase interest level. What's my next step? Should i ring her or let her be the first to contact?

Thanks

Give her a nice hearty "Batman," laugh http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kuvckhEAHg1qzgcpyo1_500.jpg and say, http://runjumpfire.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/you-chose-poorly.jpg

 

[VladPatton]

When in doubt, always, always go for the girl that shows you clear interest in the present moment. Nothing happened before because of disinterest, and what hasn't happened is fantasy. Go for the now.

 

[RickHunt]

Thanks guys. Women just don't make sense.