"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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MindOverMatter

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whether it's too much or not, I really can't say. For me it was not a problem, and I made some fast gains but I guess it will depend on the person's body type.

Try to lift more every week, little by little, and focus on getting stronger. The body will follow.

edit - also beginner gains happen no matter what routine you use. what he means by that is, when you first start working out, your muscles are not dense, and are untrained. When you first start working out, you will make good progress because those untrained muscles will become denser. But after you fill them out, your gains slow down because you have to build new muscle tissue rather then fill out existing one.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by MindOverMatter
whether it's too much or not, I really can't say. For me it was not a problem, and I made some fast gains but I guess it will depend on the person's body type.
Good point, it really DOES all depend on the body type. I, like you, made fast gains but i did a 2-day split. Wouldn't it make sense to TRY a 2-day split and see if he can handle it, if not he can move to a routine like yours (similair to what i do now).

Try to lift more every week, little by little, and focus on getting stronger. The body will follow.
Good advice. What routine you choose won't do a thing if your not pushing yourself every week (remember good form!).

edit - also beginner gains happen no matter what routine you use. what he means by that is, when you first start working out, your muscles are not dense, and are untrained. When you first start working out, you will make good progress because those untrained muscles will become denser. But after you fill them out, your gains slow down because you have to build new muscle tissue rather then fill out existing one.
Thanks for the info. I wasn't aware of this. If this is true then it would make sense that no matter what routine you do, as long as each muscle group is used there will be gains.
 
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